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Bosses get away with far too much, I know it, you know it and the toxic bosses reading this will already be frothing at the mouth.

2020.09.10 11:18 Snoo_3158 Bosses get away with far too much, I know it, you know it and the toxic bosses reading this will already be frothing at the mouth.

LetsTalkAbout ....

Bosses get away with far too much, I know it, you know it and the toxic bosses reading this will already be frothing at the mouth. So it’s time they start getting called out, let me make a commitment to you here. If you’re going through anything related to the following subject, you’re not alone! I’be got your back.
How many of of you have ever worked for a toxic boss? They come in a variety of shapes and sizes.
You’ve got the: - The Passive Aggressive One 😠 - The Genuinely Aggressive One 🤬 - The Stalkery One 📹 - The Belittling One 🔨 - The Paranoid One 🎭 - The Gas Lighting One 🕯 - The Compulsive Liar 🤥 - The Sexist One (Sex Pest)👺 - The Racist & Xenophobic One🐷 - The One with the inferiority complex 🐜 - The Narcissistic One 🥀
But occasionally, you find that rarest of beast. The ones that skull around LinkedIn often typing “THIS IS NOT FACEBOOK” on posts that talk about human rights issues whilst gleefully mashing “something something something snowflake” on their own page.
Of course I am talking about the arsehole incarnate who takes all the toxic traits above and combines them Thanos with the infinity stones to become the inevitable mega Arsehole.
Toxic bosses; settle down boys and girls and listen to a tale of a boss so toxic, so terrible that his name has become somewhat of a meme in inner circles.
The following events are based on a true story.
For a long time I’ve been in contact with, watched, learned and even worked with just such a beast. (I’ll insert an emoji of the representative persona as we go along).
His actions are of so much notoriety that “pulling a Metcalfe” or “they’re a proper Metcalfe” has become a common turn of phrase amongst some of my colleagues and connections.
“Eh he’s probably just got a bit of a twisted sense of humour” is what I thought initially, but I couldn’t have been more wrong.
I probably let a few things slide to begin with but in hindsight my new work colleagues saying “Be careful around him he’s bit, ya know” should have been a red flag on day one.
🎭 This particular beast took the form of my divisional manager at a large recruitment agency I worked for (he’s now left after essentially making himself unemployable over a series of sexual harassment cases also search are, as far as I am concerned in no way liable for his actions, they’re a top company) it was an odd experience. The paranoia was obvious from the start with him telling me “Don’t talk to Dunc or James, they’re bad news”, they were actually alright blokes but they just didn’t like him as he haemorrhaged staff due to treating them like shit. In fact I was the only one in the office who liked him.
A: “What do you think Mark meant by that?” N: “Errrm he asked how your weekend was?” A: “Exactly, why would he ask that?” N: “Because that’s the sort of inane conversation you have at an office job on a Monday morning”
🕯He juggled his work and his drinking problem quite well although would often keep me away from my desk on “long lunches” where I’d sit and listen to his inane ramblings about colleagues and his wife whilst he sank multiple pints, he would always say “I’m the best boss you’ll ever have, no other boss would let you get away from being away from your desk for this long” which I guess was accurate but he would then turn around the following day and say “Why are you behind on KPIs? I’m keeping you in this job right now”
A few months in and two staff members down (both having lasted no more than 1 and 3 months respectively) I assisted to hire a new person, still under the impression that it was just the market that pushed the other two out. I brought in a young girl from my previous company, she did well from the off.
👺 Then things started getting strange and she stopped socialising with us both on break times instead opting to spend it with other colleagues which is fair enough.
I wasn’t wise to the real reason this was happening at this point in time. Turns out the boss man had been sexually harassing her for weeks, going as far as to say “Book a meeting in London or somewhere far away so we can expense a hotel over night, have a few drinks, see what happens”. He is.... Not particularly attractive... Nor very gifted with charm either... Oh and 15+ years this poor girls senior.
🥀 He had also concocted a fantasy relationship between her and I (without sounding arrogant he was blatantly jealous of my looks and lifestyle at the time as I was young and single whilst he was relegated to scouring Tinder, Bumble and PoF behind his wife’s back and failing miserably, he went as far as to create a tinder profile using my picture and his name) so would often belittle me in front of her as a way of showing he was “the alpha”.
Really it just made him look petty.
📹🥀🐜👺 He would ask for explicit details of dates I’d been on, for their names and for photos. He’d find women who I had gone out with with on Facebook and try to add them for... Uncertain reasons 🤷🏻‍♂️.
One day after work we went for drinks where he spent a good 10 mins saying to our latest hire:
“You look really good, you look good, them jeans fit you just right, what sort of men are you in to? Older men with cash? Or pretty boys like Nick? Bet you like older men don’t you! Like that money” over and over.
She was visibly uncomfortable, the next day he was talking about how much of a flirt she was with him.
🔨 He would try to find faults in all things I (and any of his staff) would do, be it inside or outside of work. His life must be miserable and he gets his validation and happiness from “punching down”, for him if someone is doing better from what he sees as a “lower class” or has a chance of becoming better than him at anything it is his priority to keep them down, whilst sucking the dirt from the boots above.
This isn’t unique to me either, it seems that every ex and current employee of his had the same treatment. He actually failed the probation of one employee who I found for him back when he was a client of mine because of “mental health reasons”. This employee had billed £30k in two months but had taken a week and a half off work for mental health issues. He quit.
Going for a meal with him on lunch was a strange experience, watching him sink 7 pints over some tapas, go to work, sink 4 more after and then see him drive home constantly had me a little uneasy.
These meals were often filled with such great snippets of conversation such as:
🐷 “I’m not racist you know, a lot of people think I am but I just don’t like f**kin Pakis... Little rag heads”
or
“Your bird is only with you for a green card, that’s all you’re good for is green card ass foreign birds don’t get the craic like English ones, I’m funny you see, you’re not. That’s why you date foreigners” (my partner has two degrees and a masters in Law & Business)
👺 “I like to hurt my wife sometimes, turns me on when she cries. I took a video of it and uploaded it to PornHub.... That’s illegal? Meh who doesn’t love a bad boy”
Or him speaking to foreign waiters like they are toddlers (sigh):
“EY! Name? You... name? Javi? Football? Citeh, me... Me Citeh. You Barcelona? You Madrid? He, United. Shit hahahahahaha”
Pretty embarrassing for a “grown man”.
Me being able to speak Spanish seemed to upset him, anything that someone else could do that he couldn’t or could do better was seen as a threat.
🐜👺🔨🤥 This is an odd one and not many will be able to relate but worth putting in whilst I’m on this tangent. Often he would question my ability when it comes to boxing despite never having seen me box. I would invite him to the gym to train together and do some sparring, he would always cancel last minute but not till he says “I train with Quigg you know” and then would insist on telling a story of how he once knocked out three Greek policemen on a stag party 5 years ago and how he could “one bang” me if he wanted to. He also nearly got me banned from my favourite tapas restaurant after he ran up a bar tab by himself and told them I would pay for it the next time I was there.
🤥🐜🕯📹 Once I stopped working for him things became clearer but he was left alone with our new hire who also left shortly after I did. He would call and message me to criticise the name of my current employer, the content I put on LinkedIn, the market I worked in (if he didn’t understand something, which was a lot of things, that was also a threat to him). He had also ramped up his sexual harassment and taken to stalking a guy his final employee was kinda dating on social media, adding him, deleting him, adding him again, viewing his profile multiple dimes a day and went as far as to encourage me to “Beat him up” as he told me that she and he kinda had been reporting ME to HR for sexual harassment (after I had left the company) which seemed odd.
Basically he lived in a fantasy world of his own creation so when HR sat him down and told him he had been naughty his mind somehow interpreted that as “Nick has been naughty”.
🕯🔨🤬 At some point I ran in to financial difficulties and spoke to him about it, that was a mistake! As whenever a debate happens on LinkedIn comes up that he loses (which is all the time seeing as he builds strong opinions based on nothing but a headline in the Sun and has no real understanding of how anything works) he will drop in a “You payed your council tax yet?” Or similar.
👺 He blocked me after he got caught sending dick pics to female recruiters on LinkedIn and I told him he should apologise and do some damage limitation... He still denies doing any wrong and went as far as to comment on the status of person who called him out calling her names.
Why do I write this? Well, after he blocked me I was able to catch up with a few ex colleagues and employees and found their stories of working for him were similar to my own and how working for him had affected their mental health and even careers.
Here is where the fun starts:
He unblocked me a month or so ago and started asking questions, trying to get “dirt” on me, about my relationship, about my work life, about my finances etc.
He would send me a single message “#2020” sometimes multiple times per day in relation to my side busienss as it hasn’t made £80k in 6 months of operating.
I’ve spent the last few weeks listening to his incoherent ramblings about BLM, the EU, racism and of course his attempts to put me down, little did he know I have been baiting him (this can be something as innocuous as saying “City aren’t going to sign Messi” he sees that as an attack on him, also asking him deliberately loaded questions such as “How do you get to that conclusion?” or “Explain what you mean by that?” He would then tie himself in to knots and get angry as his logic fell apart in front of him. Until he then showed his true colours.
Taking my moment to call him out for the unhappy little man he really is and his response of listing how many houses he owns and therefore he can not possibly be unhappy whilst I have “a green card ass” (again referring to my partner as a lesser being because she isn’t from England) before he once again, blocked me.
It’s time to stand up against such arseholes. Stop them in their tracks. Show the world who they really are.
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2020.09.04 09:34 CharmingFrosting A message to myself and others who may need inspiration.

Warning.
 
This is long. It is a 39 year old life condensed into a number of pages. I wrote this for myself today to remind myself of who I am and to dump my thoughts as I suddenly have felt down the last few days due to several reasons.
 
These words are mostly raw cryptic ramblings of my life, very little editing just what I feel and think. I wanted to get it out and finished so I can let it go.
 
This is an anon account, I have a happy productive life, but I have struggled in the past with anxiety and depression. I have mostly conquered them, if you need inspiration, this may help you.
 
Otherwise I expect no one to read this, but if you do thank you for the time invested.
 
Dad, my very earliest memory is with you! I must have been 3 maybe 4? We were sitting under the Christmas tree. The room was dark, the tree was lit up blue, the tinsel sparkled, mother was so happy, a train raced on the tracks.
 
We grew up not poor, and not rich, but very comfortable. My dad was a hard worker, and my mom was a wonderful home maker, and worked when she could. We had a nice place to live; our family had hundreds of acres of farm land we visited daily. I had a sister, mom kept us clean and fed and loved us, dad made sure we had everything we needed. You two never fought, did not drink (most of our relatives where alcoholics), and were always home at night. We always had birthdays, Christmas, Halloween, vacations, I always knew I was very lucky and I was thankful growing up.
 
Mother never let me leave her site, she was worried, I understand, but I knew I grew up in a castle of sorts, I never learned the world as many do. I was shielded and protected always. My mom and I were close, dad became distant, we did not play much, or talk much, and he was stressed often. I always felt despair when I asked him to play with me and he was too tired.
 
I graduated from a vocational school, engineering drafting, I loved it, I had the best teacher in the world. Everyone was so proud. They all said how handsome I was, how mature I was, I was healthy, I thought about college. I wanted to be an aerospace engineer; they told me there was nothing to advance in aerospace so I looked no further since I had a good job right out the door (looking back what kind of advice is that from a recruiter?). I had hobbies, paintball, guns, my race car, friends; I was awkward so no girlfriend but life was great. My parents divorced, I stayed with my dad, and my sister went with my mom. She was close, I saw her almost daily.
 
Suddenly alone in my mind thinking about the world, my future, death? anxiety came, panic attacks, I hid it for months it kept getting worse, a friend had died, a co-worker had a heart attack in front of me, I thought something was wrong with my body, I was scared. An emergency room visit, I thought I was dying, they said you are perfectly healthy, you just have anxiety, I thought great! It will go away.
 
Two years pass, nonstop assault of my own mind against my body. Tremors, muscle spasms, heart pounding, my head spinning, I can’t leave the house, I can’t work, I can’t sit in peace for one moment of any day. My family says I’m lazy and don’t want to work or do anything with my life, to get it together.
 
Doctors did not help, medications were terrible, I could fall asleep standing up, therapy did not help, I tried with the resources I knew were available. I forced myself to work for a year, barely able to control my numb confused body. I lived in a camper, got my own apt, then I was homeless in a shelter, I was starving, in a city, I only knew the country growing up. I was so scared; my anxiety was off the charts, sitting watching tv with a hundred other homeless staring at me in my nice clothes while they were in rags. I got up and walked.
 
I followed the sun east, the way to my old home. It was only a 40 mile walk. I was exhausted, it was November, and Ohio is cold in November. I fell in a field next to the highway, I did not know if I could get up. My body was stiff, I thought in many years maybe a hunter would find my bones, my wallet, maybe my family would someday know what happened to their lazy son.
 
I got up; I thought I should at least die walking. A suicide ward, I was not suicidal I never wanted to give up, I wanted my old world back, but you let me stay, I explained to the doctor. He wanted to try something new, Gabitril I think it was called, normally used for seizures? Sure whatever let’s try it. I slept, I woke up, something was wrong? my body felt calm, I could think, my heart was not pounding, my arms and legs were not tingling and numb, I was me again, I had forgot what it felt like to feel “normal” I felt like I was born again.
 
I found out I only needed a minute dose, maybe 2mg a day to keep that switch flipped. They said I could be on disability and have government housing. No, I am me again; I can do better than that!
 
I had a crap job, burger king, I was the best burger flipper in the state, in my mind or at least I tried to be. My old landlord let me move back in. I could barely pay the bills, let alone pay back money I owed, but she knew I was trying. I got a better paying job, lifting thousands of lbs of steel a day 6 days a week sometimes 7. I was not strong. I had been starving for years after all, 115 maybe 120bs and 5ft10. I almost quit the first day; I had to have my mom turn my door knob so I could get into my apt. I’m not quitting, I’ll die trying. I discovered Motrin the next day.
 
I looked up my old friends, they were all doing well, college, military, family, I was still young maybe 23 or 24? I felt my life was wasted, I was behind and no chance to catch up. But I persisted, and regretful of those 3-4 years I lost to my mind.
 
I did not want to date, I did not want to waste another person’s time, what did I have to offer someone else? but yes, I was lonely. I kept working at the door factory; 2 years later I could work all day and not break a sweat. I was 160lbs now, best health of my life, I was strong, but I knew the job was a dead end and wanted to get back into drafting / engineering.
 
I met someone through a mutual friend in WOW. There was some sort of instant connection between us. As time went on we talked about everything you could imagine, we did not hide anything from each other, religion, goals, loves, foods, our deepest fears, regrets, rejection, views on the world, our travels, our faults, family. She accepted who I was, and I accepted who she was fully.
 
She supported me from a distance, always encouraging me. I wanted to be with her, I started working with my father, a tool and die engineer for the plastics industry. I worked two jobs for a long time, 10-12 hours at one, then as much as I could at the other, learning as much as I could about tooling design for extrusion and injection molding, programming and running EDMs, machining, welding and so on.
 
We eventually decided to meet each other, in the middle, we both drove 4 hours. She arrived first and waited for me, she was scared, worried I would turn and go home, she was a heavier woman over 300lbs I believe she once said, but that never mattered to me. We were both nervous, but within minutes we were talking like we had known each other our entire lives. We explored the town for days. When we went out to eat I was kind and polite with the waitress, I had been kind to her, I was just being myself, but as I looked up there was a sparkle in her eyes I will never forget. I knew she adored me.
 
We cuddled, watched movies, slept together, but did not have sex, I know we both wanted to, but I was trying to be a gentleman and I was so happy to be with her it did not matter, being with her was the most calming and happy moment in my life.
 
I wanted to stay with her so badly, but we had to go home to our jobs, and she had sisters and brothers with nieces and nephews she loved. I cried a moment when I left for home, but I knew we would see each other again.
 
We progressed, met each other more, she had a great government job. My job was great as well, learning more and more every day and it was something I truly enjoyed. My dad and I had not talked for years after he booted me out. He never understood the anxiety, but I forgave him in time as we worked together, it was not his fault, society did not know yet how terrible anxiety and panic attacks were. I learned so much, we talked every day, mostly about work, but I could tell he was proud of me.
 
She started using birth control, one day I got a call she was in the hospital in ICU. Her lungs were smothered in clots, she nearly died. The BC did not work well with her system. She was put on blood thinners. It took her months to recover.
 
My dad’s stomach hurt, he always had digestive issues, hemorrhoids and such. Years passed, no hernia, no stomach bugs. I was told my dad has stage 4 colon and liver cancer. My dad was very well off; he offered me everything if I took care of his mom.
 
I declined, Kristen and I had been together for years at this point, I wanted to move to be with her, I had learned so much I knew I could take my skills to other places and even work remotely for the existing company. I did not want to make a promise I could not keep so I declined his offer.
 
Kristen and I were supposed to visit Disney World with her entire family. My dad started chemo. I stayed behind with him. She called me almost daily on the trip, her lung condition was good, and she was taken off blood thinners and given a clean bill of health. They were rear ended in Atlanta, I was thankful they were OK.
 
We had a small fight. It was my fault; I was stressed about my dad, thinking about being very alone when he died. We knew it was only a matter of time. For the briefest moment in time I questioned our relationship, the distance suddenly hurt when it never had before, I wanted to be with her in Disney. I felt guilty for canceling the trip with them, and I was angry, it was my fault. I don’t remember my exact words but I think it was clear I suddenly questioned our being together. I hurt her needlessly I know it was the worst thing I ever did in my life.
 
I decided that night I could not ask her to leave her family behind, she was the world to her family, I knew when my dad passed, I would only have my mom, sister, and one nephew. I made the choice that night, I am going to tell her tomorrow how much I still love her, and I am going to move to be with her.
 
I was stung by a bee days before and took the day off to see my doctor, he said I may be becoming allergic. I went home to lie down with antibiotics. It was roughly noon, today was the day. I was building up the courage to call her and tell her how much I loved her, and that I was ready to look into moving to her state, that I was truly sorry about the day before and that it was not her fault. We both wanted it; we had been together for 6 years, never straying from each other, we were always there for each other. Even with the distance I was the happiest guy in the world knowing she was there. It was time.
 
As I lay in bed building myself up to call her my phone rang, it was her, she must be taking a break! She was laughing; I thought what a wonderful time to talk to her, I bet she was having a wonderful day and I was going to make it her happiest day ever. I realized suddenly that’s not laughter, and it was tears and crying, and then I realized it was not even her. The only words I heard, Kristen is dead. My heart dropped to a place I never knew it could go.
 
The autopsy, she had deep vein thrombosis, we knew about it after the lung condition, the accident dislodged the clots and they gathered in her heart over the course of the week. How is it that she was just taken off blood thinners a week or two before? How did I not suggest seeing a doctor after the accident, I’ve always considered myself to be very intelligent, but yet I failed to have knowledge of a dangerous condition for her? She had a massive heart attack in the motel in front of her family.
 
I was not with her; did she think of me in her last moments, did she give up because of our last conversation, did she know I still loved her? She took BC because of me that caused even more clots. What have I done? The sweetest most loving and tolerant person I have ever known in this world, not once did I ever hear her yell, or speak out in anger in all the time I knew her, and I hurt her, I felt I had killed her. It was my fault. Looking back, I know she would not have wanted me to feel that way no matter what happened, but at the time it I felt like the worst person in the world.
 
Never have I ever wanted to be gone from this world, but that day I was very, very, close. I had fought my anxiety and depression over those years that I knew her, and I had it fully under control for the last several; I was not even on meds for the last 5 years. I rebuilt my life from scratch. She accepted me, and supported me from a distance in any way she could, she was always available to me no matter what time of day. It was rare as we were happy and content, but we would drop anything in the world for each other if we knew the other was hurting for some reason.
 
We sacrificed being together for our careers, and family. Why do we try so hard when everything can be changed in an instant? My own body and mind turns on me when I’m young, that’s OK, I fought it and rebuilt, I met someone wonderful, I was happy, she was happy, we both worked so hard but now, that is gone in an instant too. I was never religious but I always thought there must be something, maybe some reason to our lives, if we tried hard and did good in our life good things would come to us right?
 
Her family was deeply religious, I know it was maybe their way to cope, at the time they seemed OK with her passing at the funeral, I was devastated. She was in heaven to them, a much better place than this world. In my mind we would never see each other again; she would never get to have a child of her own like she always dreamed of. I felt the world had robbed us both of so much, when we both tried so hard to be good people and do the right things with our families and jobs first.
 
I discovered reddit in that time. I researched everything I could on beliefs, religions and science. My boss gave me a layoff he knew I could not function and worked with me; I did not work for almost a year. I was miserable, trying to find reason to it all.
 
I am now agnostic? I finally let it all go, I am content believing anything is possible, and we really cannot know if there is anything more, or a purpose to life. To me it doesn’t matter. The simple fact is that we exist, for one reason or another, or maybe no reason at all. Maybe we are alive, maybe it’s a game, maybe it’s a dream it really doesn’t matter.
 
I am happy to be here, Life is great! I wish we can all experience life in the best way we can, why live in misery, we may as well be happy or strive to be happy. I defeated depression. I love helping others and being a good person. I don’t think there is any intrinsic reason to be good, but why allow others to suffer that may not be content or aware of the world in such a way. Not that my way is correct, but I believe it to be for myself at least.
 
Almost exactly a year later my dad died. What I feared happened, I was even more alone. I went back to work. He was the sole engineer at the company for 30 years; I took over his work by request. It was scary, I was terrified honestly, but I managed to do extremely well and took over the department. We designed and built tools that we never had before, made a great number of improvements and experimented with new ideas many of which worked great. The greatest lesson my dad taught me in our last years together was that it was OK to fail, and that we should learn from those failures. I was no longer scared.
 
He left very little in the way of a will, by default I believe most things should have went to my sister and I. Family and friends however swept in while I was buried in grief, a year later I offered to buy my dads house from relatives. They said sure, wait tell summer. Summer came, the house was already sold for 1/3 its value. My dad always said he wanted to burn the house to the ground if he left to live elsewhere or died if I did not want it. Now I see why, he put his life into it, kept it immaculate. It is now one of the worst dumps on the road.
 
My grief was still very overpowering as time went on. My hair once all dark brown now had grey in my beard, I lost a lot of muscle I previously had and got fat instead. However I had a renewed confidence in myself, I felt I had purpose, that I was doing well in life and that I could offer help to others and I wanted to share my time with someone once again. I realized Kristen would want me to go on and be happy no matter what.
 
I lived in an extremely small town so I tried POF. I began talking with someone there very quickly. We talked a great deal for a number of weeks. She was hesitant to meet in person; she had several failed relationships; I gave her room and time. We finally decided to meet at her friend’s house for dinner. She barely talked; maybe 10 words the entire time, her friends did most of the talking for her. I was OK with that; I can be shy sometimes too.
 
We began meeting more often, she had no car, no job, she lived with her friends and family, so I always had to drive 40+ minutes to see her. She was fun to be around, very smart, and pretty, no drugs, did not smoke, and she was a great cook! I noticed narcissistic? traits early on through our conversations, and when together. I chalked it up to her being hurt from previous relationships.
 
Example 1. I drove 40 minutes after work to help a one of her drug addict friends move furniture. I arrived; they were not there. I waited 30+ minutes in my truck while she sat inside her mom’s house with AC. She finally came out to sit with me to wait longer. Still no friend, I said I need to go home, I was exhausted after work, tired, and hungry, and that it was not right to ask someone for help moving and then not be available. She got out of the truck, slammed the door and went back into the house with her nose in the air saying I was an unreasonable piece of shit.
 
Nearly a year passed, I felt we should break up, she insisted that we would do better if we lived together and not so far away from each other. I bought a trailer for us in a park to try it out. She had gone through 3 jobs at this time, always fault of the job as to why she was fired or quit. She drove my vehicles, her friends moved in with us after losing their place. I paid all the bills, bought nearly all the food. I bought us a new bed, worked on my own vehicles, and the trailer for improvements.
 
I wanted to break up again, I had been sleeping at the opposite end of the bed for a long time. One night she was begging for sex, I gave in, she could not get pregnant after all. A month later she is waking up every morning puking. Her best friend and husband (I paid for their wedding) knows somethings not right. Yep she is pregnant, tells me on my Birthday. I did not know what to think, the trailer was small, not suited for a family. I had never expected to have a child. The entire pregnancy I worked my ass off, overtime nearly every night, worked from home, bought a car since all I had were trucks. I paid for nearly everything, she worked part time at a pizza place for a while.
 
Example 2. Every night I came home the place was trashed, garbage everywhere, nothing ever kept clean. I am a very neat and organized person; it was one of my battles with depression. I changed that about my life many years ago. I tried to keep up with it between working, but she was always behind me tearing down what I accomplished. I could not count the times I was screamed at and yelled at over so many different subjects, but it was all hormones, right? One day I come home, there is an 85lb cane corso in the living room. It is her new love, an abused and neglected dog. To this day she is extremely aggressive, she is better now, but will kill anyone that is not family. I cannot tell how much damage this dog has done over the years.
 
My son was born, my life changed, I knew I could do better, her friends moved, there was more room now, but that trailer was a temporary trial for a relationship, not a home. I started looking for a new job since my current job was extremely stressful, I loved it, but our company went from having 6 people in our tooling department and 1 salesman to having 2 in my tooling department (all the others retired) and 3 salesman. I worked nonstop; new owners did not understand the company.
 
I found a new job that I interviewed for, nearly identical work for a smaller company. Their engineer was retiring, and they could not find a replacement. We had just found a nice house I was interested in buying. I told the company I needed a few months for closing to happen. They said they would continue to look for a replacement.
 
3 Months passed, I closed on the house fully in my name, it was a process, I had 0 credit, I had never had a car loan, or credit card in my life, they were able to verify credit through landlords and utility services. A day after closing I received an email, the company asked if I was still available, they had still not found a replacement. I took the job, it was hard leaving my existing job, my dad worked there my entire life, they were almost like family, but I did what was needed for my own wellbeing.
 
The new job has been wonderful, there over 4 years now, I alone make nearly double the local annual household income. We have always been comfortable, I buy old cars and fix them to drive, the house payment is less than ¼ of my monthly income. I feel lucky the house is great, it is old, 101 years old, but the old owners kept it very well maintained, additions + garage built in the 50s and early 80s, it had a new roof, new windows, modern wiring, very well insulated, new furnace/AC, modern plumbing both supply and waste. The location is on the edge of a small city, not the best city in the world, but the local neighborhood is extremely nice and quiet, mostly older retired folk. We have everything you need within 5-15 minutes, mall, hospitals, fire dept with an ambulance 4 houses down, my job is less than 30 minutes away. It is not the country I grew up in, but it is a nice compromise with a reasonable half acre and nothing but a church and woods behind us!
 
My sons mother swore having a house would change things. That she would be better at keeping up with her own messes, not letting her things go moldy in the fridge, keeping up with her dog and having a son meant she would not yell so much. 4 years later nothing has changed it is only worse.
 
I work hard, I support her and my son in every way I know how. Your crafts? Your baking? Photography? Gardening? Keto dieting? Gym memberships? So much I have given you, unfinished crafts are piled to the walls, you never bake anymore, your 900$ camera sits idle, the garden our neighbor plowed for you sat idle both years, you even yelled at him for planting in it to share with you, he used too much room, never weeded, your raised beds I bought for you for mother’s day a year ago have weeds taller than I stand, you scream at me when I finally take them down, I did ask your permission right, oh I’m sorry there was a tomato growing somewhere in there. your Keto diet, we all ate different meals, your keto was expensive, I supported you though, you were doing so well I felt happy for you, but you gave up, that’s OK, your weight never bothered me, but I loved you were trying to be healthier for yourself and our son. Your gym membership, you could not get one, you did not have a credit card, you used mine. You never went for a year, I asked for you to cancel it, it took nearly another year and me threatening to call about fraud. You never payed me back though you said you would, and I was an asshole for asking.
 
Example 3. Early last summer I realized there was absolutely no doubt in my mind that our relationship was over. We were at the fair, there was a magic show. You were on the bleachers with your niece, I was behind with our son, the music was loud. he kept covering his ears. Daddy, daddy, it is too loud, I tapped your shoulder 3 or 4 times you kept shrugging me off, I was annoying you and disturbing you from watching. I was trying to tell you our son was upset. You gave me a dirty look, I took him to look at tractors, we had such a wonderful time exploring and looking at the machines he loved it! Someone is screaming at me? Why is someone screaming at me? I took him away from you? We were watching the show? No, you and your niece were watching a show. You screamed at me in front of hundreds of people for taking my son away from something that disturbed him. Never ever will I let my son be harmed needlessly. I gave him back to you, we’re not married, you have custody of course, and I walked away, you told me I was garbage for ruining the show, and I was a shit dad for walking away from you. I sat in the hot car for nearly 2 hours while you enjoyed yourself.
 
I never expected much of you, only to keep your possessions in check, and to keep up with dishes and one of two bathrooms. I love cleaning and organizing, but your items are piled to the walls, you scream at me if I try to organize them with or without you. Our bed is ruined, you bled all over it, your dog has it covered in mud and hair. I sleep on the floor of my own house in the living room. Honestly, it is comfortable, it’s great for my back. I do not mind, but I have no where to put my clothes, I can’t walk in the bedroom, its piled to the walls with your possessions. I built shelves in the basement for unnecessary items that are not often used, It looks like Walmart everything neat and organized in Totes yes I have a lot of items myself, I love my hobbies, and memories but I do keep them organized very well!
 
My co worker stopped over to work on his car early this summer since I have a garage full of tools and a lift, he was amazed how clean and well organized the outside of the house was and the garage with all of my auto tools and woodworking tools, he needed to use the bathroom. I was embarrassed to let him in. He saw your messes, he asked what was up. I finally told on you I am sorry. Everyone outside of family believed things were great! I showed them your crafts, the baking you used to do, the photographs you could take, I bragged about your Italian cooking, that you were finally got back to working again as a nurse.
 
No not anymore, I started talking, you broke me, finally. I told my boss, I told our neighbor who works for CPS. I called CPS on my own home asking for advice, explaining the living situation, our fighting, the fact that you have threatened to kill yourself multiple times in the past, once you and my son both. The said to get an attorney that the situation did not sound immediately dangerous.
 
You had all summer to move out, You claimed our son on taxes, you received stimulus money for you and him both, you work at a nursing home, covid ? you worked overtime, got bonuses. Oh is that a new chevy traverse in the driveway? Does it come with a kitchen? It’s nearing winter, I cannot be in this house with you all winter. You need to be gone.
 
Speaking of covid? Remember it was real scary early on? Our state shut down non-essential business. I took a week off work, our company stayed open, I protested, we had 3 people extremely ill just weeks before, one had pneumonia, he came back fine, one day he left on his own to see a doctor, the next day were told he’s on a ventilator. None of them tested positive for covid, but it was just before the scare, who knows? Either way I was a (other name for cat) you told me, yet I was trying to protect myself, our son, and you who could spread it to elderly in your facility.
 
We argued at some point weeks later, you spit in my face trying to infect me, then you find out the opposite wing of your facility has covid cases, you freak out worried about dying and infecting our son. You say I’m an asshole and a piece of shit for somehow not caring when you told me.
 
This is where we are now, last week a $3500 retainer fee, I will soon be looking for partial custody. I suspect you are bi polar and a narc. You have never got help for yourself, you have admitted to me that you need help, your friends and family say you need help, I have tried for years to support and help you. They are glad I deal with you and not them anymore. I am tired, I am sorry, I can’t do it no more. I have hundreds of photos, I have audio evidence of you telling me I’m not allowed to clean your messes, that you have no plans to move out. I don’t believe it is going to go well for you. I don’t want to hurt you, I never have I want us all to be happy and healthy, together we are not. It must end. It would be cheaper to pay your down payment and fees for a new place, but I think I need to protect myself from you. I don’t trust you.
 
I was busy all summer, starting my own side business with a friend, a machine shop and automotive shop, we spent months cleaning it and moving tools and machines, cutting trees, clearing brush, making the yard great for me and our son to play in. building Legos with him, riding bikes, playing outdoors, and video games. I helped two unfortunate friends move to our state, they were unable to get the apt they had planned to live in, an eviction was in process, they stayed at my home for less than three weeks. You were pissed, I don’t care I trusted them, your friends lived with us for nearly a year, and then your sister and mom for nearly a year as well. Who paid all the bills anyway? How could two friends of mine, one with disability for income, and another with no current job find a way to move out in 2 weeks? Yet you can’t find a way in 2-3 years?
 
I like being productive, Everyone at my workplace knows me as the happy guy, always cheerful, I feel they respect me, and trust me, they depend on the work I do. I have plans, I want to pay the house off while my son is young, I have never traveled, I want to travel! Covid was scary this summer, it drove me to start the side business, if normal jobs fail I can work on my own at worst case to get by, I know if I invest I could start my own extrusion company someday. I can design and build tooling from scratch, I just need an EDM and an extruder, my old retired boss has a huge building full of equipment and material.
 
We have never cheated on each other to my knowledge even though we consider ourselves single for years now. I am loyal to the end, but I must admit the last few weeks I ventured onto POF, looking. Summer is almost over, I have put so much down for so long, I come home and work to avoid our fights or being around you. It means I spend less time with my son as well when I avoid you. I am tired, I want to relax, I want to enjoy life with someone again. Please leave so that I can move on with my life.
 
Dating sites suck, I can’t see anyone anyway, who wants to date or talk to someone in my position, not until she is gone at least. I used to have so many online friends back when I gamed, I had many female friends and male, we used to all chat so much and game as well. We all moved on, I only talk to a couple now and they are generally not around. A happy conversation would be great! On to reddit we go.
 
I message a few that seem interesting. Male and female alike, a new friend is a wonderful thing. I talk to some, It is nice, a fresh perspective, new ideas and lives.
 
One I talked to is different, very well composed, seems smart and happy, but extremely far away, that is great, this is for friends after all. I enjoyed the talks, days later I was not expecting some words, or a picture, she honestly is beautiful, I had no idea. I maybe misunderstood, but I had to make it clear who was still here with me.
 
I told the situation just in case there was something else in either of our minds, she became quiet for a few days, I told her I was sorry and maybe I misunderstood, It was OK, we had just met, no loss right. I gave her room never expecting to hear from her again.
 
I honestly do not know the last time I felt depressed, since I had a son there is no room for it in my life, only progress and going forward. Always a busy bee helping others as I can.
 
That next day I felt depressed, wow, I forgot what it felt like, it had been 7-8+ years since I felt something like that. It was scary, I slept it off. Should I have kept quiet about my son’s mom? Maybe we could have continued talking, but that is selfish, my priority is to not hurt someone else. I admit somehow there was an attraction, I was curious to know more.
 
She messaged me back days later, saying she was willing to continue talking. What a smile that brought to me. It has been great the few small chats we have had. I do not know that there is anything more than that, probably not. I know she is busy, but I have not heard much else from her. Is it bad to wonder though?
 
My real profile is mostly DIY and gaming related; I keep personal things separate. I did glance at her profile and realized she has some great talents and hobbies, also difficulties with relationships as many of us have. I feel guilty for taking a look, so I write this in some small part for her as well, if she is curious to read at her leisure. Will it change anything if she reads it, probably not, and that is fine, at least I feel she has had a chance to know me a little better if she so chooses.
 
I know I am at the end of what I want to say, it is not elegant for sure, it’s probably a mess, I am not a writer after all. I do feel better getting some of this out there is so much more, but the intertubes are only so big! I needed to start preparing notes for the attorney and I feel some of this will help to organize. It’s not a path I ever wanted to take, I had plans and hopes for us as a family but that will never be, I am scared for my sons mom, I worry she wont get help, I know my son needs us both, and we both love him. Her health is getting bad, her weight is out of control, she can barely get up or walk at this point. She was doing so well, I don’t want me son to lose her, he loves her. I can’t help her anymore though.
 
In the end my priority is my Son, he deserves a happy mother and father, I hope no matter what happens that he will understand someday. who knows what these next weeks will bring, it is only a matter of time before she learns what is happening? How will she react? I hope I do not have to call the police, I fear for her and my son.
 
Regardless of all that is happening, I do feel happy in my life, I expect good things to come, or I will at least die trying for them. I feel fortunate for all that I have, what I have been through, what I have learned. I continue to grow as a person, I try to not be jaded by the bad experiences, there is always good, as sour as my relationship ended up with my sons mom, it honestly was probably the best thing that happened in my life. I grew into the man I am today because of it, before then I felt I was still a child.
 
My hope someday thinking about this is to double if not triple this entry with new experiences in life, I am sure it is only time before I can meet someone else that I can share happy times with, someone that I can trust and be there for. I want to watch my son grow, I want to watch his Mom get the help she needs, meet someone else and be happy to watch him grow as well. She is truly a wonderful mom and person when she wants to be, my son should be able to be proud of us both.
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I grew up and still reside in, a small Southern town in the middle of the "Bible Belt". I did not know a single gay person whilst growing up, nor was it ever presented to be an acceptable option.
Before my view on being gay had been influenced by society, I'd had my first "girlfriend" in Kindergarten. Other than that, I never thought about girls in a romantic way. During childhood and adolescence, being gay was always presented to me as something that was wrong, an illness, an abomination, a sin against God, etc.
So when I gradually realized I had feelings for my (essentially only) best friend in junior high, I confided in one of my online friends. She was under the impression that I was simply impersonating her and cut me off (due to me becoming a t.A.T.u mega-fan thanks to her Myspace page and wanting to learn Russian). So I consulted Yahoo Answers (Google at the time) at the time, to find out if developing feelings for friends was "normal". I was met with "Sure, it's a phase that all teenagers go through." (Aight, cool. I'm "normal" alright
Well cue junior year and said best friend was going to move away. I decided to write an extremely socially awkward letter explaining that I loved her (AS A FRIEND IN A TOTALLY NOT GAY WAY). So she read it, it didn't make a difference, and said she was still leaving, cue sadness and angst, etc. At that point I'd decided that I was just confused and went about my way.
Then I made another best friend at my high school graduation. We were frenemies in 7th grade, and she'd apologized for her behavior. She gave me her number and asked to hangout sometime.
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Well during all this time, I hadn't had the urge or desire to pursue any kind of sexual relationship with a man thus far. However, I was almost 20 years old with years of pent up hormones and the fury of 1000 bad fanfics in my pants.
So I went off to community college and had my first "real" boyfriend. I cannot explain how much of a letdown sex was. Literally my thought was "This is it?" I went from over 9000 to 0 with a quickness.
Granted, I stayed and kept trying thinking it would improve with time. (It did not.) As I had no social life during adolescence, I wasn't given the talk or provided with options for birth control. We ended up with 2 children. After the co-creator of the children had dated around and pursued a 2 year relationship with another girl, we moved back in together, with him promising he'd regretted leaving and wanted "us" to work. Living in one bedroom with the two kids, I was willing to give it a go and improve my life.
In 2016, we moved back in together and I worked while he stayed with the kids. During those years, I stayed loyal and behaved as I would expect my partner to in a monogamous relationship. We were essentially roommates who occasionally went out on dates. When he pestered me enough, I would give in to having disappointing sexual encounters.
So eventually in 2017, enough was enough. Best friend #2 had gotten married and I was able to talk out my feelings with her. Apparently being so unsatisfied isn't normal. (Who knew?) I developed a crush on not one, but two coworkers. (Granted I never acted on either of them, as i find women much more intimidating than men.) Once this happened, I was open and honest with the co-creator of the children.
I bought Hannah Hart's "Buffering" book. I related so deeply to her extremely religious environment, her sexual experiences with men. Then I read the Comp Het document on here and identified with 90% of it. I felt seen and heard. After consulting with my friend and reading, i started a journal to write out my thoughts and experiences and to essentially check this or that "Yep you're gay" box. I showed him said journal and expressed that this was something I wanted to explore.
He responded by feeling betrayed and hurt and went to Reddit to vent. I went and read the comments, and they were horrid. (I'll share the link in the comments below. Please no hate.) But people stated I was wrong for ever having children, I should've figured it out long before (as if the journey to finding one's sexuality is a straight, simple path). After reading these words from strangers, I couldn't imagine how my homophobic family would react. I imagined that the co-creator's family would also consider me even more selfish.
Ultimately I decided that, I'd accept my attraction to women but I wouldn't act on it. It wasn't worth losing my family or potentially my children.
(Also sidenote* I was definitely misrepresented in said post. We were never married. I had no issue with him dating if I could do the same. During our 7 years of time together (and apart) I've always been left with the parenting responsibility while he pursued relationships. I wanted an equal opportunity (alternating weekends) to pursue our own happiness and relationships. He also lied several times and got into an "entanglement " with his married friend not long after this post was made.)
Well the co-creator finally moved out exactly 2 years ago, and he's met a nice girl who he's been with since moving out. (I actually drunkenly told her at Easter that I liked girls. 🤦‍♀️)I've stayed single, oftentimes debating whether or not I should act on my feelings or just "be".
June 2019, I met a male coworker. My life mainly consists of work and home as my parenting relationship with the co-creator is definitely 95/5 at the moment. My coworkers encouraged it. Having no kind of human contact for a year, it was nice to have another friend to go out on dates with or to talk to about adult matters. I can't burden my kids with adult issues that they wouldn't understand, you know? Anywho, I was definitely not having my social needs met on the hierarchy of needs, so I gave it a go.
The sex (as usual) was meh, but I could deal from time to time. Well that didn't work out, and now in hindsight, i was settling for so much. During the relationship, he mentioned marriage. And a thought occured to me... I didn't want to wake up on my deathbed in my 80s (hopefully) and have to ask "What if?". I didn't want to settle, and what kind of example would that teach for my children? I've already wasted almost 30 years of my life not being genuinely happy, could I really do it for the rest of my life?So things fizzled out, and I honestly wouldn't care to ever sleep with a man again.
Recently, I ended up watching "A Secret Love" (If you haven't seen it, go watch. It's beautiful!). I'm not a crier, but I boohooed. It really got to me. I can't imagine having to pretend that the person you love most is a friend or cousin, for 62 years.
I'm finally to the point that, if my family can't accept me for who I am, then they don't deserve to be a part of my life. Perhaps with time, some of them could learn to love and accept me again as my authentic self. I'm finally in a good place where I'm financially independent and no longer sharing my home with the co-creator. This is my safe place where I am free to be myself. (Also I do plan on coming out, but only after I've dated around a bit. I want to be 200% sure, ya know? whispers Because there's like a 2% chance I might totally, not be gay.)
Now after all that rambling, I've got a few questions:
  1. In your experience, have you sensed hesitation from other lesbians to be someone's first experience?
  2. In the brief time that I tried dating apps in 2017, I encountered a lot of women with the preferences for "No kids", has this been a common occurrence for those of you with little ones?
  3. What dating app is the best for meeting other women? I'm definitely not a hookup person, so I'd prefer those that don't set that expectation. I've only briefly tried OkCupid and POF in the past with mixed results. Though on the Play Store I was met with multiple options like: Her, Zoe, Pink Cupid. Are the wlw dating apps better?
  4. How do I get over my fear of women? They're such beautiful creatures and I'm so intimidated. I've never felt that way with men. Every Selfie Sunday, I look at all you beautiful gals and feel like a potato.
  5. Have any of you came out to your extremely religious family? If so, how did it go?
TLDR ; Probably gay, been denying it for too long, help! (Also read with me, the Reddit post that pushed me back in the closet for 3 years. Link Below🙃)
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2020.07.08 20:56 AAFAswitch He’s had a complete change of heart. Can’t tell if DA/FA problem or if he’s just a lying manipulator or I’m just paranoid.

Ive made several posts about this situation on here before but I’ll just give a quick recap: Had a conversation surrounding future commitment (no pressure was intended just wanted to see what page he was on) three weeks ago and he basically responded in a conflicted manner but overall it seemed like he didn’t value the relationship as he said he wasn’t interested in women or relationships but still didn’t mind what we had. I broke up with him in an impulsive manner because I was hurt and confused. Less than a day later I asked him if he thought I made the right decision and he said we should take a “break”. This break involved infrequent communication and hooking up once but overall I was placed in a gray area while he “did his thing” because of work and stuff. I broke up with him because I wanted to move on from the pain and I truly believed he wanted space to work on his goals; you know, “if you love them let them go...” basically two days later he’s spotted on POF. Hiding/I hiding his profile. I sent a message on messager about it and blocked him. I was beyond devastated. Here’s where the story turns. I come home from my vacation to my apartment key I requested he returned on top of a letter he hand wrote. Basically apologizing about the way he handled the situation saying I deserved better and that he made the POF out of “boredom” and that he was just hoping to find someone like him. He then goes on to say that we are too different and it’s not fair that we stay together. He also said he doubted us being friends in the future. I immediately start bawling. I walk into my bedroom to see the teddy bear he gave me tucked into my bed even though I packed it for him to take. I was heartbroken yet again. I decided to unblock him on Facebook to end it amicably and acknowledge his letter. He responded very shortly after saying that that letter was a mistake and he didn’t mean it and that he’d want to talk later that day about everything. So we talked and he basically just had an excuse for everything. He said he was mad at himself for making the POF and that he was just looking for someone to vent to because he can’t talk to his guys about his problems and be emotional with them. He said he didn’t want to lose me and that me blocking me on everything made him think about me non stop. He wanted to see me right away and that he would look into attachment theory. He even said he wanted to partake in cannabis with me which is totally unlike him because he doesn’t smoke or drink and had been very strict with that. This dramatic 180 is just crazy to me and I guess I’m just afraid of getting hurt again so now I’m conflicted on what to do. I don’t know what to believe what’s right what’s not. I feel like that letter was the real truth, and he is chasing some ideal person in his head. I’ve caught him on dating apps twice so far and I’ve let it go. I know this time we were broken up but I just still feel like he lied and I can’t tell if he’s really telling the truth or if the thought of losing this attachment Just freaked him out. Like I broke up with him last week and he didn’t stop me at all. Idk. I know I keep posting about this but I just don’t know what to do.
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2020.06.30 06:13 GreyishSunshine Apartment hunting for the first date.

TLDR: Met a girl from online, didn't look like her profile picture. Met at coffee shop. My dumbass self went with her to "explore the city" only to be forced to help her go apartment hunting. Later found out she had a kid that she didn't have custody of.
i was on POF for a hot minute. The lesbian bar in my city had closed down so this was my next best way to meet other women. I found a girl who I thought was attractive based on her profile pictures. We had some really deep conversations and it seemed like we were on the same page. I did find it weird that she didn't want to FaceTime me but was willing to talk to me over the phone. She lived in a rural area about an hour away. We made plans to meet at the nearest Starbucks, which just so happened to be down the street from me.
The day we're supposed to meet, I decided to get there early to scope it out. Starbucks always has a really full parking lot and it can be impossible to leave if the drive through gets backed up (they block the exits). I parked next door at Chickfila. It must've been a Sunday, because the whole parking lot was empty. I waited in my car and saw a very frumpy girl with visibly thinning hair exit her car. I thought there was no way that was the girl. She said she was only 10 pounds from her goal weight when we were texting. This girl I saw was like 5 foot even and 250 lbs. Not who I was expecting. But then I saw this girl holding her phone and thats when my phone vibrated, alerting me of a text message that said "I'm here, walking in". I wanted to ghost immediately but thought maybe she just looked ugly from a distance. Maybe that wasn't even my girl.
I texted back and got out of my car. Turned out my instinct was right. The chunky thing with the scraggly hair was the girl I was meeting. I planned to leave after getting coffee. But she said she wanted to drink coffee in her car and explore the city. I was dumb enough to get in the car with her. At least we wouldn't have to have an awkward coffee date. Her exploring soon turned into apartment hunting. She stopped at a place that had a "now leasing" sign out front. I waited in the car when she went in. She came out disgruntled about how high rent was. I showed her my favorite Chinese restaurant on our drive. She laughed and said her county had better Chinese food. She stopped at another apartment. I was keen enough to google the prices before she even made it in the leasing office. I told her it was also too expensive. She came back to the car when I texted her the price.
We stopped at 2 more apartments. One of the apartments was in the next town over. At this point I had to get out of the car so I could use the bathroom at the apartment office. The leasing agent thought we were a couple and I saw the girl grin. It was almost like she wanted us to be a couple and we had only spent 2 miserable hours together. I convinced the girl that I needed to go home. She agreed to drop me back off at Starbucks. But she first had to stop at a park. She wanted to see it, and I previously told her it was the best park in the city. So we got out of the car. We walked together on the boardwalk thingy and thats when she grabbed my hand. Her hand felt like the roughest largest grit of sandpaper ever. I pulled my hand away immediately and thats when she went in for a kiss. I tried to dodge it, but she was more than 3 times my size and grabbed the back of my neck to pull me in closer.
I gave her a quick peck and then immediately changed the subject and started walking quickly back to her car. I told her I had to go home. She conveniently drove by my favorite Chinese restaurant and somehow pulled into the parking lot. She claimed she had a gift card and wanted to use it on me. Which was weird because it was a local restaurant. I had to pee again though, so I went to the restroom at the restaurant. When I came back she told me she had already ordered and I could place my order. I wasn't gonna turn down free food, so I placed my order and she paid. Although I don't remember her using a giftcard to pay. When my food came out she informed me that she wasn't hungry and actually hadn't ordered anything. I had to sit there awkwardly while she watched me eat.
I never ate as fast in my life. I listened to her tell me how her nana was watching her son. That she didn't make enough money to afford to keep him but she couldn't put him up for adoption. She told me her mom ran a preschool and her son went there for free. She said if her Uncle gave her some money she could move to the city to be with me!!! Then she could get her son back. She had these lofty dreams of getting a big executive job in the city and then having full custody of her kid.
I decided I was full, even though I wasn't. I put my food in a go box and told her I had to get home. She drove me to Starbucks. She asked which car in the parking lot was mine. I didn't answer, then she grabbed my face and tried to kiss me again. I pulled away and said I had to go inside to pee again. She said she wanted to bring my leftover food to her son since she had bought it. I said that was fine. I went into Starbucks and waited until I saw her car leave the parking lot. I ordered another Americano, and then walked back to Chickfila and left. I texted her and said it wasn't going to work out. She texted me back asking a thousand questions. She said she had the best date ever with me. I didn't respond to her texts and eventually blocked her.
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2020.02.17 18:43 Gate_Big_Fitty General Ideas for a better gw2. Some ideas to look at ^_^

So my guild mates and i started to look at the game in different way. Instead of being the salty WvWers that we once were. But we have made a list in a google doc. That will be a on going project and idea sponge for us. We are wanting to share these ideas with the general gw2 audience. We would love to hear the feed back and what others are wanting from the game. Please keep the feedback positive and in a constructive manner.

Guild Wars 2 General Ideas
Class Balance ideas
Warrior
Elementalist
Water trait line cleanse for weaver more group support maybe new trait that changes skills on tempest to condition to boon on allies with an underused weapon for short duration such as war horn and make new skills for it.
Engineer Add utility to holosmith for wvw…
Thief
Make a stealth healer for group play and trait for weapon to rip boons maybe on staff five now that it doesn't do damage
Guardian
make the pages less with shorter cool downs into the tomes, or initiative where you have to build something up before going into the tomes then have a short-timer while in the tomes then thief initiative while in the tome; making some skills use more initiative or "pages" while in the tome with no cooldowns but stronger skills remove you from the tome quicker by using more pages. You would have to build stacks to re-enter the tome. F1 could have something to do with burning an enemy, F2 could be healing and or cleansing, F3 could be blocking. It could show on buff bar stacking to say 25 and then each tome could open separately depending on your actions out of the tomes.
Revenant
Make the Ventari table be like gyros on scrapper when you active the "6" Skill, it would stay above you wherever you go, using the 6 skill again moves the tablet with the use of energy to a location for a short duration then resets. utility and elite skills can be used when the tablet is above you or at a location.
Ranger
give it a place in WvW zergs with Stance share... make the radius much larger of stances and let allies receive the full buffed trait to the duration of stances. I wanted this to be a thing when PoF dropped but never happened.
Mesmer
Give it a role with boon ripping and buffing allies in WvW with wells that rip boons and give a short duration of a boon at the location of the Chrono like 600 radius to 5 players. Make each well do different boon groups to match the skills flavor.
Necromancer
Please make it the support, barrier, condition clear, heal class that it should be. Even with all the nerfs in the past, if played right, can still support ,with barriers, and do massive DPS (not good to me). should have the trade-off of no DPS to support by giving barrier.
Wvw Defensive / Tactic ideas
Tactics
General Game ideas
- Adding or updating the mentor ability in Guild wars 2 and allowing you to Check off or show what areas of the game you are comfortable or able to mentor in. I.E WvW mentors PvP mentors and even raids and fractals. But allowing newer players the chance to ask questions to a veteran player in these fields.
Balancing out PPK and PPT, There are a fews ways of going about this my guild mates have discussed this a lot, Either having a stack buff on you that will make the kills you are getting worthless for the server but it wouldnt change the loot you are getting. This Buff would in turn also give the enemy servers 2-3 times the amount of points for killing you.This would balance out the stacking of ppk servers. Another idea would be to have an event in WvW about every 1-2 hours that make PPT or PPK the source of War score. So in the 1-2 hour time frame the servers would have to focus on either ppking or ppting.
Rework ranking in WvW and revamp Alpine Towers/Keep lords,First let me be clear
I do not like the Red borderlands land out at all, I dislike the openness of the keeps and the distance of travel between keeps. The Red server is supposed to be the underdog and needs support with winning against the other servers. Giving them red borderlands is a big disadvantage, That is also the reason you can treb SmC from Red keep in ebg. However back to the topic, I like the idea of having a unique towekeep lords. The tower lay out for Red borderlands is easier to fight in and makes it much nicer overall. The lord areas don't really force you into a tiny stacked up ball to be easily nuked on. Also if you insist on having Red borderlands being Desert why not go the extra mile and add new themed maps that match the colors? Blue could stay on the same Alpine map but Green could go into either jungle or grass flat lands. Also the idea of having multiple levels on a WvW map is horrible and shouldn't be a Vertical scaling map at all. The one big reason most people dislike Red bl is the Size and the fact that it is a Vertical scaling map.Also rework the trait system in WvW, Having 10000 ranks and only using 1226 of those ranks is kinda meh, you removed guard stacks which would of helped a ton with the slow power creep that you kept pushing until recently. Giving a slight reward to the dedicated enough to hit 10k, Maybe give out armoweapon skins or even titles. These shouldn't be easy to get and easily accessed by everyone.
Overall Combat
Crowd control- Overall like the no big damage on CC, but CC should feel more rewarding and quicker with less duration to give the combat more fluid motion on losing the damage.
Power Damage- The cuts to power will need to be revisited once outliers are shown after patch. Only real concern with it.
Condition Damage Reapplication of conditions of multiple stacks needs a look at for wvw because of the lack of consistent condition clear across all classes as well as traits of classes that add more conditions based on adding another condition such as Necro. And Rev where one damaging condition makes another damaging condition start or be reapplied instantly maybe should get an internal cool down.
Conditions Duration- ( not all of this but different Ideas)(Should be the stat that increases damage of conditions alone. expertise should affect damaging conditions only the amount of condition overload to clear soft CC over damaging conditions because of order of application or separate priority of cleanse to to give each condition a “threat” level to clear first.
Boon Duration
Boons being applied should be toned down to the “stack and empower days” but access to group boons should not be relied on by one or two classes.
Stability should counter all hard CC at lower stacking duration as long as the boon is up like old stab.
Resistance needs to do a negative damaging condition percentage, and nullify all soft CC and be as accessible as stability is.
Toughness- A class that goes fully into toughness should not be able to be one shot, but not be able to kill a class with no toughness also.
Toughness should give a base negative condition damage buff such as the buff Renegade gets on it’s healing skill ( percent increases with more toughness (0-10/20%?). Resistance should be reworked into a percentage damaging conditions and 100% on soft cc’s only together with toughness should be equaled out to 100% together of damaging conditions
Vitality - Should be the stat that is the counter to condition duration and group power burst.
Precision - Removing free precision traits and with no active play was a good for the stat.
Ferocity- With power nerfs should fall in line with overall power keep nerf.
Boons- The amount of Conditions to boon conversion traits does not match the amount of corruption traits. More traits that change weapon skills into a “purify” skill to counter corruption traits, and skills. Light fields should counter AOE condition fields only when blasted.
Finishers And Fields incorporate finishers more into group play and have a larger effect
Evades Reduce the amount of spam of classes that use it in lieu of stability and add some shareable stability to those classes
Fractal Changes
- Reworking and revitalizing the fractal scene, Making a leader board that resets weekly or monthly. Having Weekly Affixes that change and also having seasons. It would give pve a competitive environment and give us replay ability.
Arenas
- giving us a 3v3 arena variant, making it so we can have a group play that allows a bunkehealer in the comp instead of double dps classes.
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2020.01.05 18:20 idatemedia 10 Must Have Dating Software Features

10 Must Have Dating Software Features
When it comes to dating software there are 10 must have dating software features that every niche market dating site has to have.
Dating Software Features

1. Internal/External Email

When it comes to a successful email system you need to have internal email for your members and external email to notify all members of the internal emails. Don’t make the mistake of putting members email content in the external emails or it will defeat the purpose of a paid dating site.
Examples of external emails would be flirt notification, internal email notification, registration complete emails and system emails from the admin of the site.
If you’re looking to send out monthly newsletters from your dating site, don’t do so from the same IP as your main domain. You don’t want to get your IP of your main domain blacklisted for potential spamming so send out emails via a 3rd party email system like MailChimp or MailerLite.

2. Search/Advanced Search

Another feature that you have to have with your dating site is search and advanced search. Your members have to have a way to find each other. You want a simple search for those looking to find matches quickly and the advanced search for those who want to refine their matches based on certain criteria.
You want a quick search on your home page as well as on your main search page and advanced search page. Keep the advanced search below that so that people can decide for themselves which search area to use to find their matches.

3. Live Video Chat/Instant Messenger

Having a live video chat system is a must. Sure a photo or group of photos can show potential members what members look like but members want to see each other in real time. Having a live video chat for them to do one on one is essential and required. If you don’t have it, get one. iDateMedia has live video chat built into the dating software.
With live video chat users will want to reject certain members. Maybe they don’t want to chat at that moment in time so they can reject the incoming live video chat request. That way people can choose when it’s appropriate for them to do a live video chat session. Encourage people to be ready for live video chats because first impressions are crucial in the online dating world.

4. Custom Profile Creation

Each niche dating site requires its own set of profile questions. Generic dating profile questions are good but you need to change them up once you get your dating site. Be sure that the answers to the profile questions are relevant. If you’re dating site is about wine and motorcycles then make sure the questions are too.
Be sure you have your profile questions setup before you start marketing your dating site. Doing so will ensure that 100% of the profiles being created are correct and ready for other members to view.
One other thing to think about is manually approving profiles or automatically approving profiles. Because it’s a dating site you’re going to get your fair share of scammers and spammers in the site. By auto-approving them you will be letting them into your dating site so be sure to manually approve all content before it shows up on your dating site. That way you can ensure the best user experience for all members.

5. Easy Onboarding/Registration

When it comes to registration for your dating site, the quicker the better. Having a long tedious registration process will send a lot of potential members packing. The shorter the better.
Dating site members are, as we say in the marketing world, a lead. Once you get them onboarded then you have their email and that is a lead. It’s no different in the dating world. Once you have the email you can begin marketing to them about potential matches and or events going on with your dating site so get them in and get them in quick.

6. Video Profiles

Your members are going to want to see video profiles of other members. With our dating software users can upload a video file straight from their computer or smart phone. That video is then encoded via our software and then posted to the members profile. That video then becomes streamable from their profile.
Video profiles get more views than standard text/image profiles. While text/image is still good, video is way better! So focus on getting your members to upload video profiles.

7. Winks/Flirt System

A good wink/flirt system is ideal for your dating software. This gives your members a way to test out the waters with other members to see if they have any interest. This is great for users who are on the fence about paying for a premium membership. If they get a flirt back from the member they are more inclined to upgrade their memberships.
These winks/flirts are two way and as a dating site owner you can set the number of winks/flirts that users can see when sending. Be creative and yes it’s ok to use cheesy pickup lines like “Has anyone ever told you that you’re beautiful?”. Nothing wrong with adding a few one liners but don’t make it all that way. Add some other nice/creative items in there.
While some dating site owners might want to turn off this feature, it’s very important that you keep the feature enabled and promote it all the time.

8. User Free Mode/Paid Mode

Dating site owners are faced with the decision when they start their dating site if they want to be a free dating site or a paid dating site. Be sure to read our post on free or paid dating site.
Free dating sites are the norm these days and get revenue from advertising opportunities on the dating site.
You can also run a freemium dating site like pof.com and others that offer basic features for free including email but charge for things like video chat and instant messenger. In the end do some research and decide early on what type of site you want to run.

9. Speed Dating Feature

An old dating software feature is still being used today and that’s speed dating. It was popular back in the early 2000’s and still has some use today. It really depends on your niche but using the feature can really work well especially when you’re putting on dating events tied to your dating site so don’t discount this feature. It’s good to have and included in our dating software.

10. Affiliate Program

Last but not least, an affiliate program. It’s required for all paid dating sites. If you want others to promote your dating site and earn a commission revenue from it then you need an affiliate program. Our dating software includes the affiliate program.
For a complete set of features please check out our dating software features.
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2019.11.29 20:46 Veronica-TMQ The Messengers Quest [TMQ] is looking for new commanders to help manage our growing guild

The Messengers Quest is a friendly European based guild. We promote a fun, mature atmosphere that allows a good group of people to come together to enjoy Guild Wars 2 in all its many aspects. TMQ is open for members that want to be active and contribute to the guild and its community. It’s a place where people are helping each-other to complete personal stories, map completion, fractals, random dungeons or other events. We believe that a community is built on regular participation of its members and over the years we’ve created a place where activities are always evolving and spontaneous parties constantly form, be it in game or via our own voice-comm server to chit-chat and have fun. Right now, our guild management consists of two leaders and several commanders that manage the day to day activities and the guild overall. The guild has a team of commanders that organize events and a core member count around 50 and growing towards a member count around 80. With the guild growing at a steady pace we want to add some more hands to help us manage the guild. Therefore, we are looking for people that want to organize PvE (non-raid) content and have the ambition of becoming a guild commander.
 
THE ROLE We’re looking for applicants with a drive to work towards the growth of the guild. Since the guild is a growing state it can be an intense and demanding job from time to time. As such we’re preferring applicants with experience in such a role or a clear vision how to do this. Apart from the tasks that come with the role, applicants are expected to help with general tasks that grow and manage the community such as posting interesting content on the forum and keeping discord/guild chat fun and alive. Potential applicants should at least be available a few hours per week to organize events. TMQ has a clear vision on how to build and grow our community and a big part of this vision is our website, the place where we share our experiences, schedule our events and commemorate our community. Potential applicants should be willing to utilize the website in order to fulfill their role. Currently, we’re looking for several of the following commander types: - Silverwastes event organiser - HoT / PoF / Living world meta event organiser - Dungeon / Fractal / World Boss event organiser - Dungeon event organiser - World Boss runs - Decoration events - Many more of commander types are possible, do you have an interesting idea? Let us know!
 
SO HOW DOES THIS WORK? The general idea is that our event commanders tag up, on a set day and/or time, and get some guildies in your squad and fill the quad with pugs if needed. This is expected to be a weekly recurring moment and we’re looking for applicants with a medium to high in-game activity, online preferably during our prime time slot, from 19.00 CET until 23.00 CET. Applicants should be willing to keep the conversation in our channels going and contribute to the fun, jokes, chats and overall atmosphere. Furthermore, TMQ is a community centered guild and home to all kinds of cultures, lifestyles, people, and playstyles. It is a place where every member counts, not their skills, not their items and not their experience of the game. Therefore, performance centered mentalities have no place in TMQ, we do however, appreciate applicants with respect for “die hard” and “try Hard” mentalities. Applicants that are accepted will go through an evaluation period to determine if there is a ‘’culture-fit’’ with the role. In this period, we’ll guide you through every part of the guild and give you the tools to fulfill the commander role. This includes an explanation of the website functions, discord functions and the other tools/channels we use.
 
WHAT DO YOU GET? What we offer is a guild that already is in preparation of its 4-anniversary celebration. We’re a steady guild with a good organization, sense of community and a drive create an awesome environment for our guildies. To smoothen everything we put our website, forums and discord central which creates a central place to plan, talk and schedule everything we do together. But most important, we are a family playing together and enjoying the content, looking for more people to expand. In short, we offer: - Friendly and motivated members - Experienced Leadership - A position that fits to you with responsibilities worked out with and for you - Support from the leadership when faced with difficulties - Support for personal progress that benefits the guild
 
If you’re interested in becoming a TMQ commander after reading this visit our commander recruitment page!
 
Still have some questions? Although applications go via our recruitment page feel free to message us if you like some additional information: * Via in-game whisper: Panch.6718 or Poppedijntje.3106 * Via our contact page
Please Note: While TMQ pursues 100% representation it is not required. We do not believe in mandating loyalty, but inspiring it in our members. That said we do consider ourselves a main guild/community and you will be expected to represent most of the time you spend online. We enforce our Guild Rules & Code of Conduct regularly and we ask you to understand them when making an application. This especially goes for commander applicants!
Guild Rules & Code of Conduct
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2019.11.28 05:03 MQSM01 POF home page redirects problem, not allowing sign in

I can't even get to the signin page, I always get redirected back to the home page. Almost all the links only lead back to the home page. Nothing gets anywhere, I can't even get to the help desk page, that link redirects me to the home page.
What is up with this, when it all worked yesterday, the day before and somehow managed to get threw at least once today, before re-encountering this problem again. Even using a different browser doesn't help.
The problem even got worse recently too, where now the page won't show up at all, unless I use firefox's privacy mode, otherwise I will get an almost all white page with a single message saying the page could not redirect properly.
If that wasn't bad enough, the problem is occurring on more then 1 computer in my house, even my cell phone.
My account is not deleted, no reason for it too be. No nudity, no harassment, no spamming, not even any use of offensive language nor even an argument with anyone. If someone did something I didn't like, I simply blocked them, never said a mean word to anyone, nor even got pushy with anyone. So there is defiantly no reason for an account deletion.
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2019.11.22 17:51 Veronica-TMQ The Messengers Quest [TMQ] is looking for new commanders to help manage our growing guild

The Messengers Quest is a friendly European based guild. We promote a fun, mature atmosphere that allows a good group of people to come together to enjoy Guild Wars 2 in all its many aspects. TMQ is open for members that want to be active and contribute to the guild and its community. It’s a place where people are helping each-other to complete personal stories, map completion, fractals, random dungeons or other events. We believe that a community is built on regular participation of its members and over the years we’ve created a place where activities are always evolving and spontaneous parties constantly form, be it in game or via our own voice-comm server to chit-chat and have fun. Right now, our guild management consists of two leaders and several commanders that manage the day to day activities and the guild overall. The guild has a team of commanders that organize events and a core member count around 50 and growing towards a member count around 80. With the guild growing at a steady pace we want to add some more hands to help us manage the guild. Therefore, we are looking for people that want to organize PvE (non-raid) content and have the ambition of becoming a guild commander.
 
THE ROLE We’re looking for applicants with a drive to work towards the growth of the guild. Since the guild is a growing state it can be an intense and demanding job from time to time. As such we’re preferring applicants with experience in such a role or a clear vision how to do this. Apart from the tasks that come with the role, applicants are expected to help with general tasks that grow and manage the community such as posting interesting content on the forum and keeping discord/guild chat fun and alive. Potential applicants should at least be available a few hours per week to organize events. TMQ has a clear vision on how to build and grow our community and a big part of this vision is our website, the place where we share our experiences, schedule our events and commemorate our community. Potential applicants should be willing to utilize the website in order to fulfill their role. Currently, we’re looking for several of the following commander types: - Silverwastes event organiser - HoT / PoF / Living world meta event organiser - Dungeon / Fractal / World Boss event organiser - Dungeon event organiser - World Boss runs - Decoration events - Many more of commander types are possible, do you have an interesting idea? Let us know!
 
SO HOW DOES THIS WORK? The general idea is that our event commanders tag up, on a set day and/or time, and get some guildies in your squad and fill the quad with pugs if needed. This is expected to be a weekly recurring moment and we’re looking for applicants with a medium to high in-game activity, online preferably during our prime time slot, from 19.00 CET until 23.00 CET. Applicants should be willing to keep the conversation in our channels going and contribute to the fun, jokes, chats and overall atmosphere. Furthermore, TMQ is a community centered guild and home to all kinds of cultures, lifestyles, people, and playstyles. It is a place where every member counts, not their skills, not their items and not their experience of the game. Therefore, performance centered mentalities have no place in TMQ, we do however, appreciate applicants with respect for “die hard” and “try Hard” mentalities. Applicants that are accepted will go through an evaluation period to determine if there is a ‘’culture-fit’’ with the role. In this period, we’ll guide you through every part of the guild and give you the tools to fulfill the commander role. This includes an explanation of the website functions, discord functions and the other tools/channels we use.
 
WHAT DO YOU GET? What we offer is a guild that already is in preparation of its 4-anniversary celebration. We’re a steady guild with a good organization, sense of community and a drive create an awesome environment for our guildies. To smoothen everything we put our website, forums and discord central which creates a central place to plan, talk and schedule everything we do together. But most important, we are a family playing together and enjoying the content, looking for more people to expand. In short, we offer: - Friendly and motivated members - Experienced Leadership - A position that fits to you with responsibilities worked out with and for you - Support from the leadership when faced with difficulties - Support for personal progress that benefits the guild
 
If you’re interested in becoming a TMQ commander after reading this visit our commander recruitment page!
 
Still have some questions? Although applications go via our recruitment page feel free to message us if you like some additional information: * Via in-game whisper: Panch.6718 or Poppedijntje.3106 * Via our contact page
Please Note: While TMQ pursues 100% representation it is not required. We do not believe in mandating loyalty, but inspiring it in our members. That said we do consider ourselves a main guild/community and you will be expected to represent most of the time you spend online. We enforce our Guild Rules & Code of Conduct regularly and we ask you to understand them when making an application. This especially goes for commander applicants!
Guild Rules & Code of Conduct
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2019.11.22 06:32 Instanthelpsolution Step by Step How to Delete POF Account

Trying to delete POF accounts can be a bit of a mystery. Either you have found the love of your life or simply want to swim another direction for a while and can’t figure out how to delete your Plenty of Fish account. Here are the 4 easy steps to insure you clean things up and have done everything correctly in order to delete your Plenty of Fish account. There are actually services that promise to shut things down on your behalf, but why give yet another internet site your credentials. We can tackle this task together in just a few minutes and give you peace of mind to move on. If you use the POF app, you will need to use a computer to remove your account or go to POF using a browser. The steps are the same.
First you want to use your POF login to sign in to Plenty Of Fish. Once you do that, you will find a link at the top of the dating website in the right hand corner labeled help, click it.
The most famous internet dating site in America is plenty of fish, often shortened to "POF." It should give someone for everyone who signs up with 40 million employees.
Many people have found their perfect match and so grateful is the website. If you have found your perfect match or are too annoyed with all these dating things and want to Delete Plenty of Fish Account permanently, we're here to help.
Before thinking about delete POF account, you must understand that there is a distinction between deactivating POF account continuously and deleting it. Consider this once; it may help you deactivate your POF account temporarily.
STEPS OF THE FISH PLENTY ACCOUNT
  1. On any browser you prefer, browse the Plenty Of Fish Home Page.
  2. Enter the email/username and enter the password related to the account. Then click Mail Check.
  3. Click on the Help tab at the top right of the page just before the "Logout" option.
  4. Under "How do I delete POF account," click "Delete account" heading from various choices.
  5. You will now go to your account's deletion page. To deactivate POF Account, just click on this direct link, you can go directly to this page. You only need to enter your username and password if you press this connection without logging in, then you will reach the deletion page of your account.
  6. You are now asked to enter various information such as your username, password, reasons to leave your POF account, how many dates you have been working on, and whether or not you will suggest POF to others.
  7. Besides this section, you will also be advised that if you delete POF account, you will not be able to continually use any data related to your profile.
  8. After inserting all the data, click the "Quit / Give Up / Delete Account" tab.
  9. So now you've found an optimal match for yourself or you've done internet dating things or you've always dated the wrong one and finished the single one! Or you may be unhappy with the results of your abundant fish account.
  10. There may be a reason why on Plenty Of Fish you no longer want your profile and you want to know how to Delete POF Account.
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2019.11.16 20:41 Veronica-TMQ The Messengers Quest [TMQ] is looking for new commanders to help manage our growing guild.

Right now, our guild management consists of two leaders and several commanders that manage the day to day activities and the guild overall. The guild has a team of commanders that organize events and a core member count around 50 and growing towards a member count around 80. With the guild growing at a steady pace we want to add some more hands to help us manage the guild. Therefore, we are looking for people that want to organize PvE (non-raid) content and have the ambition of becoming a guild commander.
 
We’re looking for applicants with a drive to work towards the growth of the guild. Since the guild is a growing state it can be an intense and demanding job from time to time. As such we’re preferring applicants with experience in such a role or a clear vision how to do this. Apart from the tasks that come with the role, applicants are expected to help with general tasks that grow and manage the community such as posting interesting content on the forum and keeping discord/guild chat fun and alive. Potential applicants should at least be available a few hours per week to organize events. TMQ has a clear vision on how to build and grow our community and a big part of this vision is our website, the place where we share our experiences, schedule our events and commemorate our community. Potential applicants should be willing to utilize the website in order to fulfill their role. Currently, we’re looking for several of the following commander types: - Silverwastes event organiser - HoT / PoF / Living world meta event organiser - Dungeon / Fractal / World Boss event organiser - Dungeon event organiser - World Boss runs - Decoration events - Many more of commander types are possible, do you have an interesting idea? Let us know!
 
The general idea is that our event commanders tag up, on a set day and/or time, and get some guildies in your squad and fill the quad with pugs if needed. This is expected to be a weekly recurring moment and we’re looking for applicants with a medium to high in-game activity, online preferably during our prime time slot, from 19.00 CET until 23.00 CET. Applicants should be willing to keep the conversation in our channels going and contribute to the fun, jokes, chats and overall atmosphere.
Furthermore, TMQ is a community centered guild and home to all kinds of cultures, lifestyles, people, and playstyles. It is a place where every member counts, not their skills, not their items and not their experience of the game. Therefore, performance centered mentalities have no place in TMQ, we do however, appreciate applicants with respect for “die hard” and “try Hard” mentalities. Applicants that are accepted will go through an evaluation period to determine if there is a ‘’culture-fit’’ with the role. In this period, we’ll guide you through every part of the guild and give you the tools to fulfill the commander role. This includes an explanation of the website functions, discord functions and the other tools/channels we use.
 
If you’re interested in becoming a TMQ commander after reading this visit our commander recruitment page!
 
Still have some questions? Although applications go via our recruitment page feel free to message us if you like some additional information: * Via in-game whisper: Panch.6718 or Poppedijntje.3106 * Via our contact page
Please Note: While TMQ pursues 100% representation it is not required. We do not believe in mandating loyalty, but inspiring it in our members. That said we do consider ourselves a main guild/community and you will be expected to represent most of the time you spend online. We enforce our Guild Rules & Code of Conduct regularly and we ask you to understand them when making an application. This especially goes for officer applicants!
Guild Rules & Code of Conduct
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2019.09.06 15:39 behindthebots Interview: Hydra captain Jake Ewert, on this season's hardest-hitting flipper

# This article originally appeared on our Facebook page; cross-posting it here for those of you without Facebook. # The Ewerts are building delightful things out in their sparsely-populated corner of rural Wisconsin.
The family’s machine shop, Westar Manufacturing, doubles as the home of Team Whyachi, which has been building combat robots since the early 2000s. The team is competing on BattleBots this year with three heavyweights: Hydra, Falcon and Son of Whyachi.
Outside of custom machinery for the dairy and cattle industry, the Ewerts do a brisk business in combat robotics parts and weapon bars--supplying custom components to the majority of the teams competing on BattleBots this season. That notably includes Deep Six’s massive vertical weapon, Bloodsport’s equally punishing horizontal bar, and the frames for a surprising number of top teams.
Oh, and Thor’s hammer.
A few years back, Marvel asked the Ewerts to build an aluminum version of Mjolnir for their blockbuster movie franchise, that actor Chris Hemsworth would wield onscreen.
“They had to send it back to us because the actor was complaining it was too heavy,” Team Whyachi captain Jake Ewert, 31, says. “So we had to hollow the whole inside out.”
As an aside, Ewert says he and his brothers didn’t seem to have any trouble lifting Mjolnir.
Jake and his brothers, Luke, Clint and Reese, grew up in combat robotics, led by their parents Terry and Lisa.
Like a lot of families in the late ‘90s, the Ewerts were big fans of the original BattleBots series--so much so, that Terry entered the 2001 competition with a category-defining heavyweight called Son of Whyachi, which weighed 315 pounds and shuffled along the floor. On top, a brutally efficient, triangular spinning hammer. The bot won the competition that year.
18 years later, the Ewerts are veterans in the sport--now driven by the sons, three of whom are captaining their own bots this year.
And while Son of Whyachi has had a strong season, the bot that’s really grabbed the spotlight is Hydra, the titanium, hydraulic-powered flipper bot that earned decisive wins in three matches--including flipping WAR Hawk into three pieces.
Hydra’s hydraulic flipping system weighs 70 pounds alone, with manifolds, hosing, two pressurized tanks, motor and the fluid itself. It takes about six seconds to charge the tanks up to 3,000 PSI, which dump so much force at once that the bot can flip 250-pound opponents more than 10 feet high.
Jake says the bot can easily reach 4,000 PSI, which would get its opponents 15 feet high--enough to hit the lights mounted on the ceiling of the BattleBox. A slightly more difficult change could cut the charging time down to just 3 seconds.
The team continued to tinker with the bot’s design in the offseason, and say they’re now able to modulate the speed of their flipping arm. In a Facebook video, they showed Hydra lifting the back end of a van. On the flip side, they also posted a video of Hydra flipping a 450-pound ATV.
Listen to our full interview with Jake on this week’s episode of Behind the Bots.
Stream now on PodBean: behindthebots.podbean.com/e/battlebots-s4e12-recap-plus-our-flipping-awesome-interview-with-hydra-captain-jake-ewert
Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/behind-the-bots/id1464206991
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2019.08.13 09:58 MagicJ10 !don´t use gems for the step 1 Alicia Elle banner!

When you do the memories of time 5000 might quest you get a free ticket for step 1 of the banner.
edit: thanks to hyperbass for the info:
Valkyrie Anatomia -The Origin- Global
5 hrs ·
"Message from the Development Team" Supplemental Information About the Step 1 ticket from the quest Memories of Time 🌠
We have received inquiries from users regarding the Step 1 ticket. We hope this will help explain how to use the ticket.
"Where is the Step 1 ticket used?" ・ The Step 1 ticket can only be used on the first step of the 3 Step Divine Weapon for events beginning on or after 13 August 2019.
"I've already pulled Step 1 of the 3 Step Divine Weapon using gems, what can I do?" ・ If you have already used the 3 Step Divine Weapon using gems, save your ticket because it can be used on future 3 Step Divine Weapons.
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2019.05.26 21:37 Mirthe_ TLDR: Clingy PoF date brings toilet paper to my house..

Ok, so I've only known this girl for 3 days. We talked on PoF briefly and she immediately asks for my cell or fb as she doesn't want to stay on the app long.. We talk more on messenger and find we both enjoy true crime and horror movies and agree to meeting. The morning of us meeting, she tells me she isn't feeling well and I ask if she'd like to go another time. She says no, its her day off and she'll be okay but asks if we can just go to my place and watch some movies.. I foolishly agree to this and go pick her up. She comes out and doesn't look like her photos, and smells very strongly of either old perfume or a hospital room.. that kind of cheap sanitary smell that some port-a-johns have. I'm immediately feeling like I'm not into this, but maybe it will be good conversation and who knows.. I notice shes bringing a bunch of stuff to my car.. like way more than she should need. I see her bring a bag with what looks like a whole package of toilet paper.. like 24 rolls and puts it in the backseat. Her mom comes out and introduces herself too and the girl makes a joke to her mom about never coming back home..
We make small talk okay, get food to bring in with us, get back to my place and I help bring her stuff in. This is when I see that I was right and there was a whole package of toilet paper which she just casually brings in with the rest of her things. We get talking while we eat and she starts mentioning food she cant have.. and that she has IBS and bladder issues. I try my best to pay it no mind but after seeing the toilet paper I have to admit, I was not doing a great job. We watch some youtube creepy videos we had talked about and now the smell of her things has stained the whole room. I'm quickly getting the sense that she's not entirely healthy mentally or physically and theres a lot of talk about hating a lot of people and wanting to see the horrible things done in the movie done to coworkers ect. She says shes the type that only needs 3 good people in her life and with her friend, her mom and now me, she's fine. Not comfy first date banter to say the least.
We put a movie on which she brought with her and during it she goes to the bathroom and is in there a looong time. I just try to be sympathetic and continue on as if everything's normal. After the movie we get talking about Netflix and Game of Thrones and she insists she hates everything popular and scoffs at the idea of being able to enjoy what the masses indulge in.. so naturally I put on The Office in the background while we talk and decide what to watch next. This plays in later..
We watch another horror movie and she's asking about when I'd want her to go, she calls me a tease over and over again for no reason, keeps referring to herself as really cute and talking about future visits.. trips we should go on one day (seriously), meeting my family.. And then she gets violently ill.. She spends the next hour in the bathroom throwing up. I ask if she's alright and she assures me its okay and rambles about having all the medication she needs with her in case anything happened..
She finally comes out and we start the movie back up, and I'm completely at a loss as to what to do. She apologizes for being bad company and I reassure her that its okay. She has a strange way of talking that seems almost put on or intentionally slow. she's a big fan of a lot of classic movies and older English rock music and she seems to put on a fake English accent at times.
It starts getting late and I make mention of having the drive ahead of us as she lives about 30min away but shes not picking up on any of these cues. I start getting the sense that she's not really in any hurry to leave and mention that I have plans with friends of mine the next day. To this she says "Oh, I'm not sure how I'd get on with other people here.. Maybe after this next movie we'll get going".
Its finally time to load her and all of her toilet paper back into my vehicle and hit the road. I get her home with her asking me if I had a good time and saying next time hopefully shes feeling better the whole way. I feel sorry for her but I'm happy its over. As soon as I drop her off I get a message from her saying she had a great time and hopes the next time its even better.. then the facebook tagging starts. She tags me in a life event "met Mirthe for the first time" and in a "is with Mirthe, watching the office", adds the office to her liked pages, shares several of my posts, and tags me in memes that vaguely pertain to our 'date'.
So there you have it, my date with patient zero. I think the odds of a next time are pretty slim, but I wish her the best and good health, and I wish the smell would leave my vehicle and room. Being single is pretty rad.
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2019.05.11 01:55 FirePrufe Update Notes - 5/10/19

Greetings reddit !
Here are the update notes for 5/10/19. Application Version 6.0.0
New features:
Updates:
Additional Updates
Hope you enjoy having a sidekick! See you all in-game!
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2019.05.11 01:53 FirePrufe GW2 Sidekick Is Back in Action! (updates rolling out)

Greetings GW2 reddit !
TLDR; It works again Kappa
FirePrufe here! Contrary to popular belief, I am still alive :) It has been quite some time since the last post but I finally have some more updates to share. This past year has been quite busy for me IRL and it prevented me from continuing to provide regular updates to GW2 Sidekick. The time has finally come to bring much needed functional updates to the app. This update brings a few quality of life changes, new features, and updates to features missing content from various patches and releases. This includes new event timers, mastery info, items, etc. Background updates include large changes to many core systems used within GW2 Sidekick.
With over 25 thousand downloads and growing, the GW2 community has continued to keep GW2 Sidekick among the highest downloaded and active user GW2 mobile companion multi-tool since it was released! I appreciate all the support, feedback, and help the community has been providing me. I am very excited to share these new updates so players can finally use the app they once loved again! Without more hesitation, I am happy to announce many new updates and major fixes coming to v6.0.0 of GW2 Sidekick (within the hour).
New features:
Updates:
Additional Updates
The gw2sidekick subreddit - Want to be sure to be up to date on all of the future application updates? Want to make suggestions for future features? Want to report application bugs? Head over to the GW2 Sidekick Subreddit. Subscribe to be sure you don't miss any updates!
I am happy to hear your feedback on the new additions. As always, if you have suggestions or requests for current or future content, please let me know through my feedback email: [email protected], posting to the official GW2 Sidekick Subreddit, or through in-game mail.

Don't know what GW2 Sidekick is?

GW2 Sidekick is a GW2 companion application for android users! Currently the app is available to users in 100+ Countries and is one of the highest downloaded and active user GW2 mobile companion multi-tool application since its launch. The application can be found on the google play store: GW2 Sidekick This application intends to be the best mobile game companion available with a whole suite of useful features that will continually be expanded upon in the future ! I am a one man team, so any feedback you give is 100% acknowledged and useful to my development! It also means that updates can be slow at times but that doesn't mean they are not coming :)
This application, like most, uses the GW2 API Key system for viewing in-game status and does not compromise account security. It is not a requirement and is only needed for the account related sections of the application.
----- More to Come Soon -----
Hope you enjoy having a sidekick! See you all in-game!
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2019.04.16 05:25 cutiepietulip Im still hurting

I met my first boyfriend when I was 18 and he was 28. ( I know the age gap is alarming...) I had just gotten out of my first official relationship that was completely one sided- all he wanted was my virginity and that's what he got. I was pretty "heart broken" about that. I soon moved on and met Him on Plenty of Fish. We talked for a while, but his age concerned me and I wouldn't make time to meet him. After one of my dates stood me up for the second time, I told Him what had happened and I was sitting in McDonalds waiting for time to pass ( I told my grandma that I was going to watch a movie with some friends.) He told me that He was going to come and keep me company- I didn't tell him no.. if something was going to happen to me.. it was going to happen. He did make me feel better and I decided that I could trust Him. After that night, we would talk on the phone constantly and we hung out a lot. My grandpa had to put a curfew on me because I was still in school. Even though we liked each other, I was scared of being taken advantage of and hurt again, so I wouldn't let him touch me other than hugs. He was so patient with me and he helped me get through some pretty stressful times- school and family.
After a couple of months of getting to know him, He asked me to be his girlfriend and I of course said yes. He met my grandparents and they liked him. After that... everything moved so quickly. We were a couple, we were together a lot, I was finishing up my senior year, I was constantly fighting with my parents, and I was preparing to go to college. We spent the whole summer together and then I was off to my first year of college. The distance was hard on me, but I got used to it fairly fast- I was determined to make it work... And it did work for three years.
Everything was perfect, for the most part. We had our differences and struggles, but we always got through it. about two years in he started changing... He was trying to get better from a back injury, his jobs weren't what he wanted, he lost some of his libido, he was running into financial issues, his communication skills were lacking and he became extra fixated on his video games/drones. I didn't see a lot of changes right away because I was only home for Christmas and summer. I started feeling a little neglected... I tried to talk to him about it, but he didn't understand why I was feeling that way. I ended up pushing the feelings away. . I noticed that my uncle gave my aunt flowers. I became a little jealous and asked Him why he never gave me flowers. He told me that flowers are too expensive... but video games, computer parts, and vape items were cheapemore important? About a year ago he started making plans to move back to his hometown and I was ecstatic- I wanted to do my student teaching there and finally live with him. That's all we talked about- our future. Soon it was time for him to move and I moved with him for three months... Things were rough- we both had to get jobs fast, we lived with his grandma, we didn't have a lot of money to go out, and I missed my family... especially when I was home alone with grams. I made it work... at least I thought things were working.
It came time for me to go back to my family to get ready for school and he had to do his monthly duty. We got in a few arguments before he left to go back to his home, but I made sure to talk to him about it. I asked him to talk to me more while I was at school. When he got on the plane I asked him to think about everything that we had talked about and he promised me that he would. When he got home he texted me that he was safe... and I didn't hear back from him for three weeks. At this point I was annoyed, but wanted him to text me so I kept quiet. I made it up to school and I still didn't hear back from him- I still was holding my guns about not messaging him. Soon I got fed up with it and I sent him a three page letter. I do admit that I said some things in there that could have stayed out... But I wanted him to know how I felt. I called called him after a week or so after I sent the letter and we got into a fight.... I guess it was more me crying and yelling every time that I spoke. He finally told me me everything that was wrong and why he wasn't talking to me. Why couldn't he have told me? I would have understood and taken things better. He concluded by promising me that he would make a point to talk to me more. It only lasted a week and a half. I called him a few more times, yelling and crying... I didn't know what to do, what to feel, how to act- I became incredibly depressed and I only went to my studio classes and barely made it to my lecture classes. The last few weeks of October I decided that we needed to take a break, hoping that he would see that I was losing my love for him. He agreed and that broke me even more. I tried to date other guys... but I wasn't happy ( this is my fault... I should have let myself heal instead of putting a bandaid over the pain). I was looking for something to take my mind off of all the negative things that were plaguing my mind.
I started asking him to send my necklace back, since I realized that things werent getting better. In November I sent him money to send it back. I never got an answer until I messaged his mother. When he did respond he said that he was working 60+ hours a week and didn't have time to look for my things. I messaged him every few weeks to see if he had found it but soon gave up. I was moving on.... I stopped thinking about him every day. The other day I was stupid and googled his user name. I found that he reactivated his POF- which is fine... he can date other people. I looked farther and found that he started a Youtube channel for his drones.. this is fine... he can do whatever he wants. What makes me mad is that he doesn't have time to look for something that is important to me, but he can find time to date, fly his drones, edit videos, and post them. Now all of my emotions are back to square one.
I dont feel like I can talk to anyone. All my friends and family tell me the same thing.. to focus on school and move on. How? I lost my best friend, my world of 3.5 years and I dont know how to cope. Ive tried crying, weed, drinking, adopting a kitten, dating, sleeping, talking to a counselor, and leaning on friends/family. I emailed him saying that I am tempted to file a police report and he has until May 1st to send my things back to me, but I still feel like crap. I still feel like I didn't do enough to make things work. I feel like I should have tired to understand his interests more, even though it was incredibly hard to do what he liked (drones/video games made me really motion sick). Was I to greedy? Am I too oblivious to things? I want to ask him all of these things, but he doesn't respond to anything that I send him now.
Im sorry that this post is so long... I really needed to put it out there. Thank you for reading.
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2019.01.30 09:34 Wolfencrest129 "Why can you not craft a second Banner of the Dauntless Commander?" And other issues with PoF stats & LWS4

So, I'm expecting to get told I'm whining by posting this, and in fairness I kind of am, but as the title states you cannot craft a second banner of the Dauntless Commander. I know this because I was looking to make a backpiece for a Heal Firebrand/Renegade, and knowing there are limited options for selecting PoF stats in the first place, I saw the 400 some Inscribed shards I had in my inventory collected solely from farming the home node I bought, and thought, “Hmm. Why don’t I just craft another Banner of the Dauntless Commander?” So I took the time to gather all the items needed, farmed all the shards, only to find out It’s a one craft per account item like a precursor, effectively wasting all the time and gold I spent collecting those items. There was the initial phase of anger and frustration, but in contemplating it further, this brought up several questions and problems I personally have with the Banner, Kourna, LWS4, and PoF stats in general.
My question for ArenaNet is why? Why is that you can only create one banner? I understand why it makes sense thematically, the banner is supposed to be "special" and represent The Commander. But while that decision might make sense on a thematic level, it makes absolutely no sense on a practical level. Every character on every account is supposed to be The Commander. Each individual character on an account is not special on a mechanical level. People have alts that are solely used for farming, or bag opening, or crafting ect. I’ve only ever done the HoT and PoF stories with 3 characters, and only for the backpiece collections that went along with doing them 3 times, and I’ve only ever finished the core story on one character. Not every character is special. Ascended items are somewhat rare, and certainly valuable, but this one ascended backpiece is not special because it has special ties to The Commander, because everyone is The Commander.
Furthermore, not being able to craft the banner more than once severely limits the number of backpieces from which players can select PoF stats from. As of writing this there are currently 12 ascended backpieces that offer PoF stats. 4 of them are locked behind completing the entire PoF storyline, 2 of them are locked behind LWS4 maps, which not everyone has access to and require collections needed to even get said backpieces. 3 of them are locked behind raids, which not everyone does, and even then are either a lucky drop or take 4 weeks of farming. And 3 of them are Legendary items, which not everyone can afford. Also the PoF story and LWS4 backpieces are all one time achievements. This creates the possible scenario where a player could have used all of the PoF and LWS4 backpieces, but doesn't raid for one reason or another, and doesn’t have a legenary to use in that slot, effectively making them unable to get another ascended backpiece with PoF stats. This is not a good scenario to put players in. Making the banner able to be crafted multiple times would immediately solve the issue of the limited number of ascended backpieces.
So far the Banner of the Dauntless Commander is the only craftable ascended backpiece with PoF stats, but you can only craft it once. The problem is that this is not made clear anywhere other than the crafting window. This brings me to my next question. If the Banner of the Dauntless Commander is only able to be crafted once, why is it that you can continue to purchase the items necessary to craft it after you have already done so? The NPC you buy the items from is Lady Camilla, your herald, continues to sell the items necessary to craft a banner even if you've already crafted it once. What is the point of this? The only possible explanation I can think of is to give players a way to get the items again if they accidentally destroyed them, but it's already possible to retrieve items that have been accidentally destroyed that are required for legendary collections, so it stands to reason that the same mechanic could be implemented here. Another solution is to simply send in a ticket asking for the item back. But if the banner has already been crafted, there is no point for Camilla to continue to sell the items needed to craft it. They should completely disappear from her inventory once the banner has been crafted. At the very least the materials could come with a warning that says you’ve already crafted the Banner, so people don’t make the mistake of thinking they can craft the Banner again.
But this brings me to a problem I have with Kourna as a whole; there is little to no reason to visit it once the Banner of the Dauntless Commander has been crafted. Inscribed shards see little use once the banner is crafted, being really only useful to purchase plaguedoctor inscriptions/insignia, but plaguedoctor as a stat is not that useful outside of a few niche builds. But Kourna isn't the only map that suffers from this problem. Jahai is also rendered virtually pointless to visit once youv'e collected all of the Requiem Armor pieces, except in the case of Jahai there is no new stat combination to farm for. The only time Jahai sees major activity is when it's time for the Death-Branded Shatterer fight, and the only reason people go there is for the extremely rare chance at the Branded infusion. Making the banner able to be crafted multiple times would not only solve the issue of the limited number of ascended backpieces with PoF stats, it would also give people a reason to be in Kourna. It would breathe life into a map that sees little activity now.
And this brings up the problem I have with PoF and the LWS4 maps in general. They are far less useful than their LWS3 counterparts. Every single map has an ascended item in it you can buy with that maps currency, making every single currency, and by extension, every single map valuable. By comparison the LWS4 maps see their currencies much less valuable. Hardly anybody farms trade contracts, and the farms that do exist are tedious. Kralkatite Ore can be used to create weapons, but there’s little reason to create those weapons outside of the skins, as it’s much cheaper to simply stat swap to marshal’s stats, which is also virtually useless as a stat. The currency is far more useful as a means to buy more shipments and help increase the gold you get from farming Istan. Difluorite can be used to buy ascended trinkets, and is currently the only LWS4 currency to do so (It’s also my personal favorite currency because it reminds me of Dioxygen difluoride), but so far you can only buy 2, a ring and an earring. Inscribed Shards are useless once you’ve crafted the Banner aside from niche plaguedoctors builds, and Mistonium is completely useless once you’ve collected all of the Requiem skin. Branded Masses are an interesting subject, because they are useful for crafting Diviners gear, but come with the added caveat of requiring at bare minimum 6 laurels to get a full set of armor and weapons through stat swapping. It’s also interesting because Diviners gear is currently META for a few important build, making it highly sought after. However, because Diviner’s stats are so sought after ArenaNet had to do something different with the trinkets.
LWS4 Episodes 3 and 5 came with the ability to purchase ascended trinkets for the new stats released with those episode from the Volatile Magic vendor for the region, but they weren’t purchasable with the map currency. Instead they were purchasable with laurels and ectos, at 35 laurels a ring, 40 laurels and 50 ectos per earring, and 30 laurels per amulet. This is similar to how PoF launch stats are locked behind trade contracts, laurels, and pulsating brandsparks. But laurels are extremely time-gated, with players only able to get a maximum of 45 laurels per 28 days barring any gotten from achievement chests. That’s 180 laurels and 100 ectos for a full set, which if a player started from 0 laurels, would take 4 full months to collect; except ascended trinkets don’t work like that and you can only have one of each type of unique item on a character at one time, so you not only have to farm out the laurels, you have to go farm out the currency of the only other map that currently offers PoF stats, just to still be missing a backpiece. Needless to say this is bad game design. But since Diviner’s stats are so sought after, ArenaNet ended up having to make Diviner’s stats selectable in LWS3 trinkets, where you can already get a full set without all the extra hassle and wait. Now granted yes, you can get Diviner’s and other PoF stats from other sources like raids or WvW/PvP, or Legendaries. But not all of those options are available to everyone. The fact that ArenaNet basically had to put PoF stats in HoT gear simply because the stats were so good and it was more readily available, proves to me my earlier point that the LWS4 maps are not nearly as useful as their LWS4 counterparts.
As it stands to get a hull set of Harriers gear you need to farm either a ridiculous amount of trade contracts, laurels, and pulsating brandsparks, fractals, pvp/wvw, or raids to get the trinkets you can’t get with Difluorite, which compared to LWS3 is a problem. Not everyone is able to do those game modes. But a problem begs a solution, and mine is simple. Make the next LWS4 Episode the Bitterfrost of LWS4. Bitterfrost Frontier sees constant activity because of how useful the map is in terms of an ascended gear farm. On this one map you can get an Ascended ring, earring, backpack, and aquabreather. If we don’t have enough trinkets for a full set, well give it to us. That simple. Make us farm for it like we have to with Bitterfrost, but at least give us the ability to. Heck, if you made the Banner of the Dauntless Commander craftable several times and gave us just a ring, earring, and amulet, you give us a full set. I don’t think I’m asking for much there.
I realize that this has been a long, complaint filled tangent about something that is my own stupid fault, and I know that the issues I pointed out some people will completely disagree with me on. To some I will come off as nothing more than whiny idiot that wasted his time by trying to make something he couldn’t, then writing up a now 4 page rant about problems that nobody cares about, but the criticisms I’ve made here are at least in my view valid enough for discussion. And these criticisms come from a place of love. I love Guild Wars 2. It is by far the best game I have ever played. I have made many friends here, and I will along for the remainder of its ride. But I’m aware the game isn’t perfect, and I want to see it get better. This was initially just supposed to be a rant about not being able to craft the Banner more than once, but it evolved the more I thought about LWS4 as a whole. I don’t expect anyone to read this wall of text, let alone people to entertain my points or even agree with me. I hope that someone at ArenaNet will see this, and take what I’ve said into consideration, but again, I don’t expect it. At the end of the day, and by that I mean 3:30 am good lord I need sleep, I just want Tyria to be a better place.
EDIT:
TLDR: *You can only craft the Banner of the Dauntless Commander once, despite the only indication of that being the case on the crating window
*There is a severe lacking of trinkets with PoF stats, especially backpieces, which you can eventually run out of if you don't raid/have a legendary
*PoF and certain LWS4 maps are not as rewarding as their HoT and LWS3 counterparts, and a farm map like Bitterfrost would fix this
Again, sorry for the wall of text, and peace.
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2019.01.24 12:41 nonstickpanfan 30F, 40M

So, I’m a 30 year old female, I’ve always been on the look out for my ‘other half’ as such, but I’ve been thinking a lot this year and would like to tell you a little about my take on things now, as to maybe provide a bit of encouragement/perspective into things. It obviously won’t be the same for everyone but please have faith.
So far I’ve had 2 serious relationships, both lasting about 2-2 and a half years. My first was when I was 21 (met him on a holiday abroad, my first love), and the next when I was 27 (met online dating, thought he was ‘the one’). My last break up was in February, which I honestly didn’t think I’d make out alive! Hahaha, now I think about it!! I thought I honestly wouldn’t be able to live without him. Thought he was my ‘perfect’ guy, thought we got on amazingly, fantastic, I thought me and him were on the same page, about everything!! I loved him so so much, our chemistry was unreal and everything was so easy....until 2 months after we moved in together he suddenly ended things. Completely flabbergasted (good word). For the next 6 months I became this psycho girl trying everything to make it work, and no wonder he got sick of me, I was crazy, but oh my, what a lesson I learned. I was completely baffled by it, and still am in a way.
But one thing I’ve learned, which I feel is actually quite a lonely thing to realise, is that no one is your other half. I think I’ve lived in fairytale land since I was wee and I always imagined me and my partner, no matter what, tackling the world together. And I have always been on the lookout for that partner. Now I realise I might never find someone. And I might just have relationships every few years. I might be single forever, who knows. This saddens me greatly, but it’s reality nowadays. Maybe we’re meant to date people every few years for needs at that time and specific point in life. I might never get married, I might never have kids. I just don’t know, and if you have no expectations you won’t be left disappointed.
I look back and each relationship served me for that time, taught me a lot about myself. My last relationship really made me look at myself, it gave me the push to tackle problems about the strained relationship with my mum which I can now see has stressed me out my whole life. I’m going to counselling but mostly I’m really looking at myself as a person, who I am, why I behave the way I do, what is it I want, what do I feel I deserve. I’m trying to realise as well how cruel my ex was in the end, very brutal for a sensitive girl like me, and I honestly felt like he’d broke me. He didn’t communicate his thoughts with me hence why everything was a surprise. He never saw me as a friend, just a girl to be an object and give sex, make his life happy when he wanted. He wanted something easy, convenient, and didn’t want the hassle of a strong fiesta girl!
Anyways, since February I have dated. Since my first break up at 24 I’ve always been into dating, thought its exciting, good fun, going on 3 dates a week sometimes, knowing if I fancy a guy or not as soon as I meet them. It’s very rare for me to fancy someone I’ve realised. They have to have specific ‘criteria’ as such.
Well I’m dating this time round and I wasn’t enjoying it, I only wanted my ex, he was the best I thought, I’ll never fancy anyone else, blah blah. I’m on all the apps. I’m realising that maybe I need a break as I’m tired of it, and I now live with 2 really cool flatmates, my life has changed for the better for sure I’ve realised, I love where I love, love my job, doing cool new things this year . I’m on tinder, bumble, okcupid, pof, match (I even paid can you believe it!) so I’m giving loads of guys a chance, my ex I didn’t fancy from him photos and profile and when I met him I was blown away, so why not give other guys a chance I tell myself.
Being a girl you can imagine the number of matches, a fair few convos but one thing I say no to is men with kids or who have been previously married, wouldn’t give them a chance even, the whole idea made me feel weird and isn’t for me. Well that’s becoming a problem at 30, and I now realise that the men with the best conversation are the dads!! There’s no hope is there. I honestly couldn’t keep track of everyone I was matching with and speaking to and yeah I was one of these flakey people for a bit there because I just wasn’t bothered and didn’t think id find anyone I’d like. No one stuck out to me.
One day a guy messaged me on match, I remember we both ‘noticed’ or ‘looked’ at each other’s profiles, but I saw he had kids and didn’t want anymore children. Big red flag. When he messaged I replied as he seemed nice enough and turns out he lived very close by to me. One thing on his profile I noticed was his favourite place was the west coast. Well recently I’d been thinking I want to move there in the future. Anyways I left it as that because I knew there was no point in meeting. He then messaged me a couple weeks later and I thought hey, I like speaking to new people and it’s interesting finding out who lives roundabout me. I wondered if maybe he could be a coffee companion if nothing.
So we arranged to meet in our local park, he brought me a coffee as we sat, very nice and relaxed walk in the park. He was an ok looking guy actually. We got on fine, he was nice, he was down to earth, but I always knew I wouldn’t see him again. When I got home my flatmates asked me if I’d see him again, and funnily I said yeah I’d probably hang out with him again but since he has kids it wouldn’t be dating as such.
Roll on 4 months later, and I’ve just met his parents!! (What am I doing? Yep, I duno)
Right, it’s not as serious as it sounds as was just a casual cup of tea while we were passing. But it has been the oddest thing to me, I’ve felt confused. I’m just going with the flow though. Right now I’m enjoying my time with him, and over the months we’ve spoke a lot about things, been blunt. We’ve tried to not see each other, I’ve tried to end things multiple times, I didn’t fancy him as such at the beginning, it took a lot of work...but he has surprised me, continuously! I’ve only fancied him properly this last month I’d say. I can’t even describe it, every time I’d come round to end things he’d impress me in some small way (without him trying or realising), and I honestly felt like I couldn’t because I’d wonder if I was throwing something good away. I liked his friendship, it was nice and we’re like companions.
We’ve had such blunt conversations and we both know we have to say bye to each other in the future, go our separate ways, but we’re both thankful and enjoying the time we do have together. He’s even joked he has to approve of my next bf and if anything he’s a great friend of mine now. He literally lives 1 minute walk away from me and we just started hanging out all the time. We both like animals and a laid back lifestyle, no glitz and glamour as such. We enjoy the same kind of outdoors stuff. He likes going for a wee walk in the evening!!! Something I used to beg my ex to do with me but he wouldn’t.
He has told me he can’t imagine his life without me, and I know I’d be lonely without him too. We both just really love having someone round the corner who’s like a bf/gf but there’s no pressure for the future (minus the multiple chats about how we will end things/that I would like a baby one day!)
At first it was convenience I guess. I didn’t fancy him, and I remember kissing him and thinking oh no no no. Now I think I could be in love with him. What have I done.... Actually, I know I love him. He’s so sweet! The kissing is great now, the sex was so disconnected at the beginning but it’s so good now. I fancy him so much now, when I was so unsure of him at the beginning. He’s slowly been ticking off all my boxes....bar 1. Actually, 2. He has kids. And he can’t have more.
Everything I had concerns over and brought up, he says I do like that, but I’ve been holding back and as I’ve got to know him he honestly is blossoming as I watch. I can’t believe it! He said he was holding back and was nervous to mess things up with me, and I see that now. He honestly was the most nervous anxious person I’d ever met and I really didn’t find it attractive. I was nervous to introduce him to my flatmates or friends because he kept saying really odd things. It turns out he said stuff because he was nervous. If he’d stayed like he was when I first met him I’d know I wouldn’t be able to be committed to him, but now he’s just got this confidence I can’t even describe, I feel taken aback a bit now. But in a good way!
He’s like this new blossoming incredible man!! I don’t know where he’s come from. He said to me a couple weeks ago that I’ve made him feel like a new man and he has confidence now, something his ex really took from him.
Last night I was watching him cook, and I said to him ‘wow, you have changed.’ I just was in awe of him watching how he carried himself now, and he just smiled at me. He knew! He knew exactly what I meant. I joked he better not get too cocky! It’s probably because for the first time in probably 10 or more years he had a female (me!) initiate sex with him. He has this great body for his age, and he used to hide it from me. His ex used to say to him and point out his worst bits of his body. And now he’s not shy with me at all. Everything he was hung up about from his previous (15 year) relationship I’ve complimented he says.
It was weird, we went to his hometown at the weekend there, when I met his parents, but going for a walk at the beach, and seeing who he was and him interacting with his parents, it just made me like him even more. I don’t feel weird about him being a dad anymore and I don’t know if I’ll ever meet his kids. Not sure how I feel about that aspect at all really. Will tackle it if r ever comes. But tbh, I don’t think I’d ever meet them unless I could see us being long term, and we never will be probably. His kids at 10 and 13 so that little bit older.
If anything, I realise now that maybe we’re stepping stones for each other...
I always feel and think now: we’re always where we’re meant to be in life.
One thing is, something beautiful can blossom from nothing to start with. A quote I saw recently ‘a plant blossoms if you water and tend to it daily’. It’s true about a person, and it actually makes my heart swell a little seeing how confident and smiling he always is now. And if anything I will always be thankful for his time he’s given me, and he’s shown me what I deserve from a man. He’s exactly what I’ve needed...minus his vasectomy, haha! I think we’re good for each other, for now anyways.
So people on here I’ve noticed say stay away from and just cut off someone and don’t date them if they can’t give you what you want. Fair enough I have a bit of time to play with on my hands, if I was 38 I probably wouldn’t be doing this. But I will always be forever eternally grateful to him. And I know he feels the same. I honestly was about to lose hope, but just meeting someone and developing this connection over time has taught me to give people a chance. Both my exes it was boom! Amazing chemistry to start. So I am shocked with how I feel now, but it’s also nice. It’s not all hopeless!!
The saying goes, it’s always better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. And one day me and him will have to walk away from each other, but after my last break up I’m not scared anymore. Getting over who I thought ‘the love of my life’ was has made me strong now. I’ll survive no matter what I go through I realise. It takes time, and yeah it’ll hurt, but I’ll be ok I know. And I’m sure he will be too. It’ll be hard, but I hope we’ll end on good terms and really appreciate the time we had together. Whether it be a few months more or a few years!
So just to say, not all hope is lost. Take your time to get to know someone that is a little different from the others or who does fun things. That intrigues you. That holds good values. It takes time for all these things to come out I guess. That spark I was searching for, once again...I now think it can develop. I always thought it needed to be there straight away.
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2019.01.24 12:31 nonstickpanfan 30F...now dating, or whatever it is, 40M

So, a wee post if anyone is disheartened about dating, or looking for a new perspective. I’m a 30 year old female, I’ve always been on the look out for my ‘other half’ as such, but I’ve been thinking a lot this year and would like to tell you a little about my take on things now, as to maybe provide a bit of encouragement/perspective into things. It obviously won’t be the same for everyone and dating can be very hard in different areas from what I’ve read. But please don’t give up!! Wonderful things can come out of it.
So far I’ve had 2 serious relationships, both lasting about 2-2 and a half years. My first was when I was 21 (met him on a holiday abroad, my first love), and the next when I was 27 (met online dating, thought he was ‘the one’). My last break up was in February, which I honestly didn’t think I’d make out alive! Hahaha, now I think about it!! I thought I honestly wouldn’t be able to live without him. Thought he was my ‘perfect’ guy, thought we got on amazingly, fantastic, I thought me and him were on the same page, about everything!! I loved him so so much, our chemistry was unreal and everything was so easy....until 2 months after we moved in together he suddenly ended things. Completely flabbergasted (good word). For the next 6 months I became this psycho girl trying everything to make it work, and no wonder he got sick of me, I was crazy, but oh my, what a lesson I learned. I was completely baffled by it, and still am in a way.
But one thing I’ve learned, which I feel is actually quite a lonely thing to realise, is that no one is your other half. I think I’ve lived in fairytale land since I was wee and I always imagined me and my partner, no matter what, tackling the world together. And I have always been on the lookout for that partner. Now I realise I might never find someone. And I might just have relationships every few years. I might be single forever, who knows. This saddens me greatly, but it’s reality nowadays. Maybe we’re meant to date people every few years for needs at that time and specific point in life. I might never get married, I might never have kids. I just don’t know, and if you have no expectations you won’t be left disappointed.
I look back and each relationship served me for that time, taught me a lot about myself. My last relationship really made me look at myself, it gave me the push to tackle problems about the strained relationship with my mum which I can now see has stressed me out my whole life. I’m going to counselling but mostly I’m really looking at myself as a person, who I am, why I behave the way I do, what is it I want, what do I feel I deserve. I’m trying to realise as well how cruel my ex was in the end, very brutal for a sensitive girl like me, and I honestly felt like he’d broke me. He didn’t communicate his thoughts with me hence why everything was a surprise. He never saw me as a friend I don’t think, just a girl to be an object and give sex, make his life happy when he wanted. He wanted something easy, convenient, and didn’t want the hassle of a strong fiesty girl!
Anyways, since February I have dated. Since my first break up at 24 I’ve always been into dating, thought its exciting, good fun, going on 3 dates a week sometimes, knowing if I fancy a guy or not as soon as I meet them. It’s very rare for me to fancy someone I’ve realised. They have to have specific ‘criteria’ as such.
Well I’m dating this time round and I wasn’t enjoying it, I only wanted my ex, he was the best I thought, I’ll never fancy anyone else, blah blah. I’m on all the apps. I’m realising that maybe I need a break as I’m tired of it, and I now live with 2 really cool flatmates, my life has changed for the better for sure I’ve realised, I love where I live, love my job, doing cool new things this year. I’m on tinder, bumble, okcupid, pof, match (I even paid can you believe it!) so I’m giving loads of guys a chance, my ex I didn’t fancy from him photos and profile and when I met him I was blown away, so why not give other guys a chance I tell myself.
Being a girl you can imagine the number of matches, a fair few convos but one thing I say no to is men with kids or who have been previously married, wouldn’t give them a chance even, the whole idea made me feel weird and isn’t for me. Well that’s becoming a problem at 30, and I now realise that the men with the best conversation are the dads!! There’s no hope is there. I honestly couldn’t keep track of everyone I was matching with and speaking to and yeah I was one of these flakey people for a bit there because I just wasn’t bothered and didn’t think id find anyone I’d like. No one stuck out to me.
One day a guy messaged me on match, I remember we both ‘noticed’ or ‘looked’ at each other’s profiles, but I saw he had kids and didn’t want anymore children. Big red flag. When he messaged I replied as he seemed nice enough and turns out he lived very close by to me. One thing on his profile I noticed was his favourite place was the west coast. Well recently I’d been thinking I want to move there in the future. Anyways I left it as that because I knew there was no point in meeting. We matched on tinder in between also, had a wee joke. He then messaged me a couple weeks later and I thought hey, I like speaking to new people and it’s interesting finding out who lives roundabout me. I wondered if maybe he could be a coffee companion if nothing.
So we arranged to meet in our local park, he brought me a coffee as we sat, very nice and relaxed walk in the park. He was an ok looking guy actually. We got on fine, he was nice, he was down to earth, but I always knew I wouldn’t see him again. When I got home my flatmates asked me if I’d see him again, and funnily I said yeah I’d probably hang out with him again but since he has kids it wouldn’t be dating as such.
Roll on 4 months later, and I’ve just met his parents!! (What am I doing? Yep, I duno)
Right, it’s not as serious as it sounds as was just a casual cup of tea while we were passing. But it has been the oddest thing to me, I’ve felt confused. I’m just going with the flow though. Right now I’m enjoying my time with him, and over the months we’ve spoke a lot about things, been blunt. We’ve tried to not see each other, I’ve tried to end things multiple times, I didn’t fancy him as such at the beginning, it took a lot of work...but he has surprised me, continuously! I’ve only fancied him properly this last month I’d say. I can’t even describe it, every time I’d come round to end things he’d impress me in some small way (without him trying or realising), and I honestly felt like I couldn’t because I’d wonder if I was throwing something good away. I liked his friendship, it was nice and we’re like companions.
We’ve had such blunt conversations and we both know we have to say bye to each other in the future, go our separate ways, but we’re both thankful and enjoying the time we do have together. He’s even joked he has to approve of my next bf and if anything he’s a great friend of mine now. He literally lives 1 minute walk away from me and we just started hanging out all the time. We both like animals and a laid back lifestyle, no glitz and glamour as such. We enjoy the same kind of outdoors stuff. He likes going for a wee walk in the evening!!! Something I used to beg my ex to do with me but he wouldn’t.
He has told me he can’t imagine his life without me, and I know I’d be lonely without him too. We both just really love having someone round the corner who’s like a bf/gf but there’s no pressure for the future (minus the multiple chats about how we will end things/that I would like a baby one day!)
At first it was convenience I guess. I didn’t fancy him, and I remember kissing him and thinking oh no no no. Now I think I could be in love with him. What have I done.... Actually, I know I love him. He’s so sweet! The kissing is great now, the sex was so disconnected at the beginning but it’s so good now. I fancy him so much now, when I was so unsure of him at the beginning. He’s slowly been ticking off all my boxes....bar 1. Actually, 2. He has kids. And he can’t have more.
Everything I had concerns over and brought up, he says I do like that, but I’ve been holding back and as I’ve got to know him he honestly is blossoming as I watch. I can’t believe it! He said he was holding back and was nervous to mess things up with me, and I see that now. He honestly was the most nervous anxious person I’d ever met and I really didn’t find it attractive. I was nervous to introduce him to my flatmates or friends because he kept saying really odd things. It turns out he said stuff because he was nervous. If he’d stayed like he was when I first met him I’d know I wouldn’t be able to be committed to him, but now he’s just got this confidence I can’t even describe, I feel taken aback a bit now. But in a good way!
He’s like this new blossoming incredible man!! I don’t know where he’s come from. He said to me a couple weeks ago that I’ve made him feel like a new man and he has confidence now, something his ex really took from him.
Last night I was watching him cook, and I said to him ‘wow, you have changed.’ I just was in awe of him watching how he carried himself now, and he just smiled at me. He knew! He knew exactly what I meant. I joked he better not get too cocky! It’s probably because for the first time in probably 10 or more years he had a female (me!) initiate sex with him. He has this great body for his age, and he used to hide it from me. His ex used to say to him and point out his worst bits of his body. And now he’s not shy with me at all. Everything he was hung up about from his previous (15 year) relationship I’ve complimented he says.
It was weird, we went to his hometown at the weekend there, when I met his parents, but going for a walk at the beach, and seeing who he was and him interacting with his parents, it just made me like him even more. I don’t feel weird about him being a dad anymore and I don’t know if I’ll ever meet his kids. Not sure how I feel about that aspect at all really. Will tackle it if r ever comes. But tbh, I don’t think I’d ever meet them unless I could see us being long term, and we never will be probably. His kids at 10 and 13 so that little bit older.
If anything, I realise now that maybe we’re stepping stones for each other...
I always feel and think now: we’re always where we’re meant to be in life.
One thing is, something beautiful can blossom from nothing to start with. A quote I saw recently ‘a plant blossoms if you water and tend to it daily’. It’s true about a person, and it actually makes my heart swell a little seeing how confident and smiling he always is now. And if anything I will always be thankful for his time he’s given me, and he’s shown me what I deserve from a man. He’s exactly what I’ve needed...minus his vasectomy, haha! I think we’re good for each other, for now anyways.
So people on here I’ve noticed say stay away from and just cut off someone and don’t date them if they can’t give you what you want. Fair enough I have a bit of time to play with on my hands, if I was 38 I probably wouldn’t be doing this. But I will always be forever eternally grateful to him. And I know he feels the same. I honestly was about to lose hope, but just meeting someone and developing this connection over time has taught me to give people a chance. Both my exes it was boom! Amazing chemistry to start. So I am shocked with how I feel now, but it’s also nice. It’s not all hopeless!!
The saying goes, it’s always better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. And one day me and him will have to walk away from each other, but after my last break up I’m not scared anymore. Getting over who I thought ‘the love of my life’ was has made me strong now. I’ll survive no matter what I go through I realise. It takes time, and yeah it’ll hurt, but I’ll be ok I know. And I’m sure he will be too. It’ll be hard, but I hope we’ll end on good terms and really appreciate the time we had together. Whether it be a few months more or a few years!
So just to say, not all hope is lost. Take your time to get to know someone that is a little different from the others or who does fun things. That intrigues you. That holds good values. It takes time for all these things to come out I guess. That spark I was searching for, once again...I now think it can develop. I always thought it needed to be there straight away.
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